Skip to comments.I’m Okay, You’re White
Posted on 07/07/2020 5:51:12 AM PDT by Kaslin
In the 1970s, a little book written by Thomas Harris M.D. titled, "I'm Okay You're OK," sat atop the bestseller lists for 70 weeks. Harriss concept of Transactional Analysis implied there were ways we can delineate and learn from three ego-states to guide and improve our interpersonal communication. In other words, overcoming negative life positions unlocks the freedom to change ourselves in positive ways.
If Harris had published "I'm Okay You're OK" this year, instead of sitting atop the bestseller lists hed be lucky to receive enough of an advance to buy an N95 mask. These days, people are clamoring to read the equivalent of "I'm Okay You're WHITE." They are consumed by newspaper and magazine articles about how America was created to perpetuate the supremacy of Caucasians. Before COVID-19 and the horrifying murder of George Floyd despite our flaws, we were still the one place on Earth to which freedom-loving men, women and children wanted to emigrate.
NEWS ITEM: New York Times to capitalize Black but not white or brown.
This caught my eye as my family and I were spending part of our 4th of July streaming Hamilton on Disney+ and being spellbound by the show which stunned Broadway. Lin-Manuel Mirandas production casts African-American performers in roles such as George Washington, Aaron Burr, and Thomas Jefferson but otherwise just lets the American historyand the musicwash over audiences. Without an overt focus on race, or politics, or agenda.
However, it also reminded me of an evening in late 2016 when then-Vice President-elect Mike Pence was booed as he and his family attended Hamilton at the Richard Rodgers Theater in New York City. And as he was exiting, Brandon Victor Dixonwho played Aaron Burrlectured Pence from the stage: "We, sir, are the diverse America who are alarmed and anxious that your new administration will not protect us, our planet, our children, our parents, or defend us and uphold our inalienable rights," Dixon said. "We truly hope that this show has inspired you to uphold our American values and to work on behalf of all of us."
Penceever the gentlemanstood in the aisle and listened intently to Dixons every word. Rather than react to the rude dressing-down he had just been given by that actor, the incoming vice president instead turned to his daughter and said softly: Thats what freedom sounds like.
But now fast-forward to July 2020.
Unity, grace and respect have given way to mob rule and hysterical rebranding of American monuments (CNN correspondent Leyla Santiago flatly stated that President Trump was appearing at Mount Rushmore which she described as a monument of two slave owners and on land wrestled away from Native Americans. Not to be outdone, an NBC contributor called the South Dakota landmark a monument to white colonizers carved by a KKK sympathizer").
I seriously doubt if many Americans of any ethnicity embrace this ridiculous power-of-suggestion from the media deeming 4th of July a racist holiday and suddenly determining Mt. Rushmore is an abomination oddly, not the song they were singing when Barack Obama and Bernie Sanders staged photo-ops there and stood in awe of the greatness of these historical figures.
And now the New York Timesthe print version of former Alabama Governor George C. Wallaceis literally segregating America by races with its agenda-driven stylebook. Black is capitalized, but white and brown are not. In the tortured justification printed in the Times, editors twisted themselves into pretzels like performers in Cirque du Soleil, including this passage which truly belongs in a time capsule for futurehopefully more intelligentgenerations to study: Brown has generally been used to describe a wide range of cultures As a result, its meaning can be unclear to readers; white doesnt represent a shared culture and history in the way Black does, and also has long been capitalized by hate groups. Ow! This actually makes my head hurt.
In 2020, the current bestseller is nothing like "I'm Okay You're OK." It is a volume called "White Fragility: Why Its So Hard For White People to Talk About Racism." The New York Times has had "White Fragility" on its Best Seller list for the past 14 weeks despite the fact that it capitalizes the word whitetwicein its title. (Hopefully, the woke editors at the Times can impress upon author Robin DiAngeloa sociologist who is herself Whitethe need to rectify this when the paperback comes out.) "White Fragility," like any book on race, will draw enthusiastic praise as well as a healthy number of detractors. If you like wallowing in terms like DiAngelos good/bad binary of compassionate non-racists battling sinister white supremacists, youll no doubt find lots to take away from DiAngelos volume and maybe even end up feeling youre the exception to her America-is-racist hypothesis.
On the other hand, if youre predisposed to take your advice directly from a black scholar, I recommend "White Guilt" by Shelby Steele. In it, he observes that my generation the Baby Boomers stumbled onto possibly the greatest source of political, social and cultural power in the late 20th century: white guilt. This was the powereven the commandto invent America all over again in the interest of redeeming it. It was the power to transform every important institution and every area of society that had ever been touched by social injustice. And this included everything from the military to education, from the corporate world to the law. From voting rights to housing, from the practice of religion to the preservation of the environment.
Steele clarified his overview in a 2006 interview with NPR, saying: One of the most remarkable things in all of human history is the degree of moral evolutions that white Americans have made from the mid-60s to this day. No group of people in history have morally evolved away from a social evil that quickly and to that degree in this sort of short span of time. And very often, in our calculations in thinking about race, we don't give whites credit for that. Steele added: We keep wanting to sort of keep them on the hook as racist. But the fact is that whites see racism as a disgrace and something that they would do almost anything not to be identified with.
You wont hear that in any cobbled together college campus Conversation on Race and you certainly wont see it on MSNBC from regular contributors like Professor Michael Eric Dyson (who wrote the foreword to Robin DiAngelos "White Fragility"). But Shelby Steeles words ring with something even more powerful: the truth.
I want to build a boat. Maybe go around the Great Loop.
I want to name her San Jacinto ... but now I’m contemplating naming her White Privilege.
‘This caught my eye as my family and I were spending part of our 4th of July streaming Hamilton on Disney+ and being spellbound by the show which stunned Broadway.’
almost stopped reading there...
‘Penceever the gentlemanstood in the aisle and listened intently to Dixons every word.’
sounds more like ever the milquetoast to me...
Shadenfreudiliciously, Dixon will go to the guillotine for having taken part in a play that glorified a slave trader according to his fellow, but purer, cultural revolutionaries.
I like Pence. He took the flack and used it as an actual teachable moment about criticism being a part of freedom. Recently, he bluntly stated that “all lives matter” when a reporter chastised him about not saying “black lives matter.”
He’d make a good president because he’s principled and has guts.
I love Broadway musicals. Couldn’t get through the first 10 minutes. Shut it down.
“Penceever the gentlemanstood in the aisle and listened intently to Dixons every word.”
That was a mistake. Manners can be “hacked” by dishonest people. Pence had that done to him.
I remember several years ago someone wrote a parody of that book, called, “I’m O.K.—You Suck”. It was pretty funny, with both narcissistic self-aggrandizement and comically belittling and insulting others. It was described as a “Democratic Party Self-Help Guide For Idiots”.
I disagree. Dixon showed his ass and Pence showed his class. The problem is most lefties will never realize enough maturity to be ashamed of their crass stunts.
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