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When I was growing up, parents of some of my friends would tell us that when they went to high school everyone took a class in their senior year that was essentially a class in being an adult. Names were drawn out of a hat and males and females were put together in a mock marriage situation. They were given scenarios in terms of mock ages they were at, professions, incomes, etc. They were given lessons on how insurance worked and such. They were then given tasks to make decisions as a couple on what kind of insurance to get, house to buy, etc and these decisions were discussed in class. Guest speakers from banks, insurance companies were brought in, etc. These people were often former students at the high school.

A few people actually ended up marrying their mock partners. Sometimes not right away--they may have reconnected years later.

The parents said the class really helped them think about what they wanted in a partner and also demystified talking to the opposite sex as well as helped them think about what careers to go into and the plusses and minuses of settling down while young versus waiting and how best to make a go of it if settling down when young.

Some of them did end up marrying young and had successful marriages.

1 posted on 06/14/2020 7:14:31 AM PDT by CheshireTheCat
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To: CheshireTheCat

OK,less sex with *women*...but now that bath houses have disappeared there’s always “grindr”.


2 posted on 06/14/2020 7:16:27 AM PDT by Gay State Conservative (The Rats Just Can't Get Over The Fact That They Lost A Rigged Election!)
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To: CheshireTheCat

Internet pornz and a hand yo.....just saying. /s

Easier than dealing with the feminist BS, etc.


3 posted on 06/14/2020 7:17:01 AM PDT by cranked
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Filling out all the legal paperwork ruins the moment.


4 posted on 06/14/2020 7:18:10 AM PDT by ArcadeQuarters (Socialism requires slavery.)
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To: CheshireTheCat

Have you ever seen “To Sir,With Love”? Great,great film.Sidney Pottier was excellent as was everyone else featured.Well worth seeing...particularly in light of your comment.


6 posted on 06/14/2020 7:19:16 AM PDT by Gay State Conservative (The Rats Just Can't Get Over The Fact That They Lost A Rigged Election!)
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Always search for the root cause. I have done this. And, have found it. There’s a shortage of Notary’s. Need someone to create an app so 24/7 Service will be available 🙄....
7 posted on 06/14/2020 7:20:03 AM PDT by snoringbear (,W,E.oGovernment is the Pimp,)
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dating apps make it easier for less desirable women to “date” attractive men when before they’d probably have to go with guys on their levels


9 posted on 06/14/2020 7:23:03 AM PDT by escapefromboston (Free Assange)
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To: CheshireTheCat

Has anyone looked at today’s young women?

Big part of the answer lies there.


10 posted on 06/14/2020 7:23:28 AM PDT by Balding_Eagle ( The Great Wall of Trump ---- 100% sealing of the border. Coming soon.)
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Young U.S. men having a lot less sex

Of course. Have you seen the young women these days?

11 posted on 06/14/2020 7:23:33 AM PDT by Jeff Chandler (I did not kill George Floyd.)
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We had that class too. We had to manage a joint checking/savings account. Manage known bills, utilities, and then random “car broke down, additional $500.” Added a credit card and charged up $1000, now you have an additional monthly bill. &^%$. Got a dog, additional monthly expense. Needed a plumber, $150.

It was actually a very good class on real juggling of finances as an adult, something we had no experience or knowledge of.

The girl I was paired with, we’re still friends and keep in touch. But it was a very small country town, a lot of us have kept in touch. Small communities are tight.


12 posted on 06/14/2020 7:25:36 AM PDT by BBQToadRibs
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Fewer men and women worthy of being marriage partners nowadays.

Destroy marriage, you destroy the family.

Destroy the family, you destroy society.

Destroy society, you destroy civilization...

13 posted on 06/14/2020 7:25:55 AM PDT by jeffc (The U.S. media are our enemy)
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Probably a byproduct of the Snowflake Syndrome.


14 posted on 06/14/2020 7:26:06 AM PDT by econjack
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But no decline for women?

Are they hardening up ?!?


17 posted on 06/14/2020 7:27:12 AM PDT by Pikachu_Dad ("the media are selling you a line of soap)
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To: CheshireTheCat

That “adult” class is a great idea - too bad its heteronormativity would horrify government educators from coast to coast today.


18 posted on 06/14/2020 7:28:29 AM PDT by Mr. Jeeves ([CTRL]-[GALT]-[DELETE])
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Must be the soy.


19 posted on 06/14/2020 7:29:11 AM PDT by headstamp 2 (There's a stairway to heaven, but there's also a highway to hell.)
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To: CheshireTheCat

I’m an old lady now, but I still remember the feelings that a real man could stir up. There’s no way pajama boy could give me a thrill.


23 posted on 06/14/2020 7:30:40 AM PDT by ryderann
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To: CheshireTheCat

If men are having less sex and gay sex is not declining then women must also be having less sex.


26 posted on 06/14/2020 7:31:18 AM PDT by Brilliant
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“Other forms of solo entertainment “? Hmmmm.

This may be the real explanation for fewer sexual partners. It’s more convenient, cheaper and avoids complicated entanglements.


27 posted on 06/14/2020 7:31:38 AM PDT by Spok
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A TON of these young “men” are SOY BOYS raised by KARENS.....Plus a TON of girls are now BI-SEXUAL...omg.....and these kids have NO interest in DATING.....it’s a VERY WEIRD GENERATION of MISFITS.


29 posted on 06/14/2020 7:34:49 AM PDT by Ann Archy (Abortion....... The HUMAN Sacrifice to the god of Convenience.)
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Women are not attracted to snowflakes.

Too many guys addicted to electronics and have no social skills.

30 posted on 06/14/2020 7:35:50 AM PDT by G Larry (The People must shutdown the tyrants.)
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Dennis Prager suggested (in a roundabout way) that all this is the result of leftist’s indoctrination of young students into believing that it’s not safe....


31 posted on 06/14/2020 7:36:25 AM PDT by hecticskeptic
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