You have GOT to be kidding me.
Sorry, but if you want to get beaten on by both sides as a female come out as a conservative.
The liberal side will beat on you as a racist-bigot-sexist-homophobe who yearns to have other women enslaved as you are. You will be called every name under the sun and they will make up a few new ones. If you happen to be a minority female you will be subject to a flood of hate that is almost unimaginable. You will be threatened with rape and murder.
Then there is the conservative side. You will be loaded up with the guilt and sins of all liberal females everywhere. You will be told that women like Whitmer show how evil all women are. Kristi Noem or Kim Reynolds will never be brought up. If you carry a weapon you will be told how unfeminine that is and you are the reason American men lack testosterone. If you have a career you should be married and having babies. If you are married and have babies you will be told you are a worthless parasite. You will be told how Asian and Russian women as superior to you. The group that will do this is small but they are VERY vocal.
It has nothing to do with being popular. It is the confidence to not give a rats patootie about what anybody thinks of you and your beliefs.