The ERA is sadly a done deal. They only need ONE more state to ratify it. They will eventually get enough of a majority in some state or other to pass it because Americans don’t care about things like this when they vote. They slipped this one under the door when no one was looking and passed it in several states. Women stopped it in the 1970’s (God Bless Phyllis Schlafly) but no women today are going to stop it.
No, it isn’t a done deal. This amendment had a time-limit of 7 years for ratification to pass. A new amendment can be proposed, but the entire process must start again in that case.