Posted on 10/11/2019 4:52:18 AM PDT by Kaslin
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Thanks for that article.
Glad to know my son will be married forever.
Women pick who they have sex with.
Men pick who they marry.
Each sex has the most power over that aspect if relationships they happen to value second highest.
It’s ironic.
The author seems young and her advice at the end of the column is BAD advice for women. In fact her advice/conclusions are NO different from liberal feminism that one might find from mags like Cosmo or J!zzebel.
"I get older, they stay the same age."
If a woman I was dating had a "relationship coach", I would run for the hills.
Soft wall== not getting hit on /picked up by the hottest Chars anymore.
Hard wall==can’t even stick the landing by marrying a “oh, he’ll *do*” (eye roll) beta.
Tru dat. Women are the gate keepers to sex. They should be, eggs are expensive. Conversely, men are the gate keepers to commitment, which at one time, meant security and resources.
Can’t find men == woman code for “can’t attract the man/level of man I really want (”deserve”)”
The only thing I would add to the Woman store is “can cook.” Most women know the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
“Women pick who they have sex with.
Men pick who they marry.
Each sex has the most power over that aspect if relationships they happen to value second highest.
Its ironic.”
That looks like an economic compact. Like a deal.
Marriage definitely looks, today, like an investment strategy for women. Not a lifelong journey where you take care of each other through life’s triumphs and travails.
Men lose control over all of it once they say ‘I do.’ Currently. Doesn’t have to always be that way, but if it is going to change, it’ll be up to women.
And she starts getting her head filled with radical feminist theory.
I work with a young woman who just recently started dating a young man. He asked her out for breakfast at IHOP. Instead she invited him to her home and cooked him a banquet style breakfast.
I see an engagement ring in her near future.
If a woman goes down on a guy, she wants a fling, maybe a relationship. If she starts cooking, she means LTR or marriage.
You might have a point there.
However, the idea they were pushing to me is the marriage suffered because of the time, stress, and jealousy concerns.
But since you mentioned the feminazi influence, now that I am older and wiser. I bet that has a lot do with it.
Women and men are so much more than wealth and power. But we make our choices, don't we?
Milk, cow, etc.
Spin it as “lots and lots of sex” WHEN married. Tell him you want to FLOOD the gene pool with him!
Yup.
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