Perhaps you comprehension of heard is lacking. Heard does not always mean that you were totally removed from the source. In fact it was the source who thumped his chest about what he would do in a certain situation, and when actually in that situation he turned and ran. I didn't fault the person, but that was what I meant. Because in reality none of us know how we may react in a given situation. Few will live up to their statements of what they would do in situations, many will not.
Bossy? In what way? I just offered up a suggestion. Move along and let it go. We just disagree. You're not going to change me, and I am not trying to change you. I will not respond to any other communication on this topic from you. Because if you can't let it go, then I must.