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Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden
Harpers ^ | May 2, 2019 | Melanie Hamlett

Posted on 05/07/2019 10:58:25 AM PDT by Galatians328

Toxic masculinity—and the persistent idea that feelings are a "female thing"—has left a generation of straight men stranded on emotionally-stunted island, unable to forge intimate relationships with other men. It's women who are paying the price.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: alreadyposted; emotions; feelings; men; women
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To: Galatians328

Harpies are Bizzare.

Hey, I can say that I really value bible study with other men.

The Bible contains all the reasons and the solution that answers to what this silly harpy is writing so ignorantly, pridefully, and arrogantly about.

Accept Christ, and find out even further.


81 posted on 05/07/2019 2:02:14 PM PDT by right way right (May we remain sober over mere men, for God really is our only true hope.)
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To: DariusBane

I guess Melanie thinks if we aren’t crying and pouring out our souls to our male friends all the time, then something is wrong with us.

I think that Melanie is probably projecting her own experiences with female friends on to men, observing that they are different, then deciding that must be because men are doing it wrong.


82 posted on 05/07/2019 2:20:16 PM PDT by Boogieman
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To: Galatians328

And again, more weaponized victimhood...from a woman. Anyone see a trend?

JoMa


83 posted on 05/07/2019 3:43:16 PM PDT by joma89
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To: sparklite2; IronJack

I disagree.

Women spend more time discussing men and relationships. That seldom makes them much more truly knowledgeable about the opposite sex.

That is why so many women go from frying pan to roaring fireplace to raging incinerator, going from one man to the next.

Wisdom about humanity historically is actually more the province of the truly intelligent and philosophical male.


84 posted on 05/07/2019 4:45:59 PM PDT by YogicCowboy ("I am not entirely on anyone's side, because no one is entirely on mine." - J. R. R. Tolkien)
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To: YogicCowboy

Women spend more time discussing men and relationships. That seldom makes them much more truly knowledgeable about the opposite sex.


No, but it makes them more attuned to their men and relationships, where we guys grope along.


85 posted on 05/07/2019 5:04:28 PM PDT by sparklite2 (Don't mind me. I'm just a contrarian.)
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To: Galatians328

Couldn’t get past the first two words.


86 posted on 05/07/2019 5:59:18 PM PDT by hattend
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To: Galatians328

Men who face danger together (military, law enforcement, etc.) forge pretty intimate relationships. But they probably don’t sit around sipping wine spritzers and talking about it.


87 posted on 05/07/2019 7:15:17 PM PDT by Some Fat Guy in L.A. (Still bitterly clinging to rational thought despite it's unfashionability)
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To: sparklite2

If Mama ain’t happy
Nobody’s happy


88 posted on 05/07/2019 7:18:25 PM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: Galatians328
Men are lonely.

Women, Minorities hardest hit.

89 posted on 05/07/2019 7:18:46 PM PDT by SamAdams76
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To: Galatians328

Straight men don’t form intimate relationships with other men.


90 posted on 05/08/2019 12:53:01 AM PDT by octex
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To: Galatians328

Yep - the guy was a snowflake and the woman was a snowflake enabler...their sicknesses merged and her lack of coping skills laid her up...even as she studied for a PHD....kind of humorous.


91 posted on 05/08/2019 3:24:52 AM PDT by trebb (Don't howl about illegal leeches while not donating to FR - it's hypocritical.)
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To: sparklite2

Also, I have been surprised to find how much in the traditional, wealthy suburbs, women are still nervous about introducing their husbands (whom they don’t apparently trust to much) to single female friends.

Lots of female-only (particularly by day) and couples only (evenings and weekends) socializing that is very structured.


92 posted on 05/08/2019 7:43:55 AM PDT by 9YearLurker
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To: 9YearLurker

The husband having lost his social circle relies on his wife’s, which can include single girlfriends. And yes, I’ve seen the wary eye-balling, and learned to stay away from any double entendres on the occasion, because you’ll pay when you get home.


93 posted on 05/08/2019 8:58:17 AM PDT by sparklite2 (Don't mind me. I'm just a contrarian.)
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To: sparklite2

I guess several angles of human nature are at work here.


94 posted on 05/08/2019 9:10:12 AM PDT by 9YearLurker
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To: 9YearLurker

Maybe it’s best I didn’t learn social cues during adolescence. Looking back now, I could really have messed up my life, and had a grand time doing it.


95 posted on 05/08/2019 9:18:16 AM PDT by sparklite2 (Don't mind me. I'm just a contrarian.)
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To: sparklite2

Geeks are important to our world too!


96 posted on 05/08/2019 9:43:01 AM PDT by 9YearLurker
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To: 9YearLurker

Hell, with the advent of IT, they’re indispensable, but still geeks.


97 posted on 05/08/2019 9:46:45 AM PDT by sparklite2 (Don't mind me. I'm just a contrarian.)
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To: sparklite2

True. But so are social lubricators, if you will.


98 posted on 05/08/2019 9:47:28 AM PDT by 9YearLurker
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To: 9YearLurker

Eeeeeeewww. (Does it come in colors?)


99 posted on 05/08/2019 9:54:18 AM PDT by sparklite2 (Don't mind me. I'm just a contrarian.)
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To: sparklite2

;-)


100 posted on 05/08/2019 10:17:24 AM PDT by 9YearLurker
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