It's a very low bar in fact. For the most part the higher you go in the pecking order of what's considered highly positioned men the less desirable they are. I've been down that road, mostly because the gals I traveled with then encouraged I accept the offer for an evening out despite my reservations. In ALL there wasn't a one who wasn't wrapped up in his own self importance......once they discover you're not all that impressed with position's but the man that they are they deflate like a balloon. They ARE their position.
On the other hand Blue collar Workers know who they are as a Man with or without the position they hold....also Most factory operators...who often Marry up because they recognize a good thing when they find it.
Interesting perspective :)