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Why is it OK for online daters to block whole ethnic groups?
The Guardian ^ | September 29, 2018 | Chris Stokel-Walker

Posted on 10/02/2018 4:54:51 PM PDT by reaganaut1

Sinakhone Keodara reached his breaking point last July. Loading up Grindr, the gay dating app that presents users with potential mates in close geographical proximity to them, the founder of a Los Angeles-based Asian television streaming service came across the profile of an elderly white man. He struck up a conversation, and received a three-word response: “Asian, ew gross.”

He is now considering suing Grindr for racial discrimination. For black and ethnic minority singletons, dipping a toe into the water of dating apps can involve subjecting yourself to racist abuse and crass intolerance.

“Over the years I’ve had some pretty harrowing experiences,” says Keodara. “You run across these profiles that say ‘no Asians’ or ‘I’m not attracted to Asians’. Seeing that all the time is grating; it affects your self-esteem.”

Style blogger Stephanie Yeboah faces the same struggles. “It’s really, really rubbish,” she explains. She’s faced messages that use words implying she – a black woman – is aggressive, animalistic, or hypersexualised. “There’s this assumption that black women – especially if plus sized – go along the dominatrix line.”

As a result, Yeboah went through phases of deleting then reinstalling many dating apps, and now doesn’t use them any more. “I don’t see any point,” she says.

(Excerpt) Read more at theguardian.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: chat; dating; onlinedating; teenypeeny
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To: reaganaut1

If I was dating, it would be white guys. Anybody has a problem with my preference can go pound sand.


21 posted on 10/02/2018 5:46:08 PM PDT by ronniesgal (I wonder what his FR handle is?????)
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To: Jeff Chandler
A court WILL declare it illegal for dating sites to allow people to have preferences of ANY kind.

No...A court will decide FOR you who you can date, or even if you're a hetero or homo.

22 posted on 10/02/2018 5:48:23 PM PDT by Ouderkirk (Life is about ass, you're either covering, hauling, laughing, kicking, kissing, or behaving like one)
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To: reaganaut1

Legal discrimination in every sphere of your life.
Food, cars, housing, jobs etc

Not the goobermints business.
Anything else is tyranny.


23 posted on 10/02/2018 5:48:43 PM PDT by Macoozie (Handcuffs and Orange Jumpsuits)
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To: reaganaut1

Grindr is a “dating” app. Right.


24 posted on 10/02/2018 5:52:44 PM PDT by DouglasKC
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To: reaganaut1

Anyone who knows asian people, especially if they were born in asia... can tell you that most are far more discriminatory against other races and other types of asians than white people would ever be. But most save an extra special disdain for blacks, Mexicans and middle easterners.


25 posted on 10/02/2018 6:05:09 PM PDT by fireman15
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To: PittsburghAfterDark

“It’s going to get to the point where you have to sodomize someone in public or let them sodomize you to prove you aren’t homophobic.”

I’ll choose being homophobic every time.


26 posted on 10/02/2018 6:08:59 PM PDT by dgbrown
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To: cdcdawg
Mates? Huh?

Yes,mates...you know,what dogs do!

27 posted on 10/02/2018 6:11:23 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (I've Never Owned Slaves...You've Never Picked Cotton.End Of "Discussion".)
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To: reaganaut1

No fat chicks!


28 posted on 10/02/2018 6:14:46 PM PDT by stylecouncilor (Dreg of Society)
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To: Jeff Chandler

https://www.freerepublic.com/tag/*/index


29 posted on 10/02/2018 6:26:57 PM PDT by Eagles6
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To: reaganaut1

They do the acts they do but “ew Asians are gross?”

Whatever.


30 posted on 10/02/2018 6:44:14 PM PDT by Persevero (Democrats haven't been this nutty since we freed their slaves.)
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To: Dilbert San Diego

I’m still amused by the guy who was a trans woman, ranting that men who refused to date him were bigots. Our world has gone completely, totally insane.


31 posted on 10/02/2018 6:56:52 PM PDT by Hardastarboard (Three most annoying words on the internet - "Watch the Video")
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To: reaganaut1

You’re either attracted to certain physical characteristics or you’re not.
You can’t legislate sexual interest.
I have no doubt the Left is willing to give it a try, however.


32 posted on 10/02/2018 7:15:46 PM PDT by servo1969
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To: reaganaut1

But Keodara doesn’t want to date women.

Doesn’t that make him a sexist?


33 posted on 10/02/2018 7:38:40 PM PDT by Alas Babylon! (Vote GOP this November. Take two friends to vote with you!)
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To: reaganaut1

Or fat people.

Or ugly people.

Or old people for that matter.


34 posted on 10/02/2018 9:00:05 PM PDT by 9YearLurker
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To: reaganaut1
Back in 2003, I was building door to door routing algorithms for travel. A couple years prior to that engagement, a news story popped up about a person who ventured into a "bad neighborhood". It was "bad" because anyone of his ethnic background wasn't welcome in that neighborhood. He was severely beaten for an innocent error.

Back to the routing program...enter into settings your own ethnic group. Add the option to avoid areas populated by groups with strong opposition to your group. Find a route that avoids the potential hazard. It might save an unnecessary beating.

It was a concept that was never incorporated. The politically correct would never allow it.

35 posted on 10/02/2018 10:31:39 PM PDT by Myrddin
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To: reaganaut1

F’n lawyers and judges will take on any case nowadays.


36 posted on 10/03/2018 3:33:53 AM PDT by hattend
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