““So my take-away is every man has sexually harassed women everywhere all the time and they all kept quiet until now.”
Bingo! I’ve ‘harassed’ hundreds and they seemed to enjoy it.”
They used to...when America was still America and women were still women.
It’s pretty clear. At work, there should be no touching other than a hand on an arm if that. You have to “ask for time outside of work” to be picking up on someone. Like “do you want to go get a burger” is ok. But “your body is so hot” not ok. The only boss I actually went over his head and complained about, I gave him three chances. His lines to me were like “You need a little of me to fix what ails ya” Or “you need some of this, baby” which I did not feel was appropriate from a drinking male superior. So I told him to knock it off, and he did not. The next time I said, “do it again and I will tell [a very well paid chef de cuisine of the whole hotel complex, our big boss].” So he had his warning. But did it again. Any guy trying to pick me up at work, I never complained, there is a huge difference.