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Gay torment made NFL star Ryan O'Callaghan plan suicide
BBC News ^ | 21th June 2017 | BBC News

Posted on 06/21/2017 2:54:24 PM PDT by Ennis85

Former NFL player Ryan O'Callaghan has come out as gay, revealing that his anguish over his sexuality drove him to write a suicide note. The New England Patriots and Kansas City Chiefs lineman told Outsports that fear of rejection spurred him to hide his homosexuality. He even built a cabin near his Kansas City home and bought guns, planning to take his secret to the grave. It is still exceedingly rare for top-flight male US athletes to come out. The 33-year-old told Outsports, a website focused on LGBT issues in sport, that he realised he was gay while at high school in a conservative northern California town.

The 6ft 7in, 330lb (149kg) hulk saw the ultra-macho world of American football as the perfect camouflage for his true identity. "No one is going to assume the big football player is gay," he said. "It's why a football team is such a good place to hide." A litany of sporting injuries eventually led O'Callaghan into painkiller addiction. "It helped with the pain of the injuries, and with the pain of being gay," he told Outsports.

"I just didn't worry about being gay when I took the Vicodin." As his NFL career waned, he began to distance himself from his family, telling himself that it would make his suicide easier for them to accept. O'Callaghan eventually plucked up the courage to tell Kansas City Chiefs general manager Scott Pioli about his sexuality. "I'm gay," O'Callaghan said, after asking for a meeting. Pioli responded: "So what's the problem you wanted to talk to me about?" O'Callaghan, who retired from the NFL in 2011, described the huge relief the revelation brought him.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: gay; homosexual; nfl; suicide
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To: Dilbert San Diego

How do we know there are any homosexual athletes who are hiding their homosexuality???”

Well, if we assume that 90% of the people are gay, and only two athletes have “come out” then there must be more who haven’t. I base the 90% estimate on how much we are forced to talk about them in the news and on TV.

Also, I have to laugh that the author must not consider the ladies of the WNBA and LPGA as “professional athletes.” Good one, author!


21 posted on 06/21/2017 3:24:19 PM PDT by Dr. Pritchett
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To: Ennis85

“”It’s why a football team is such a good place to hide.””

He is probably correct.


22 posted on 06/21/2017 3:24:55 PM PDT by Timpanagos1
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To: txrefugee

I’m a Patriots fan, live in New England, and I never heard of him, either.


23 posted on 06/21/2017 3:38:56 PM PDT by july4thfreedomfoundation ("You can't fix America without pissing off the people who broke it".....Bill Mitchell)
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To: Ennis85

Who the heck gives a s#it!


24 posted on 06/21/2017 3:58:53 PM PDT by jaz.357 (Blithering Intellectual.)
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To: Ennis85

It is no secret that pro sports is riddled with homosexuals.

But their fear of “rejection” is often not about their job, but being rejected by those they are sexually attracted to.


25 posted on 06/21/2017 4:01:22 PM PDT by yefragetuwrabrumuy ("Baizuo" A derogatory term the Chinese are using to describe America's naive "White Left")
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To: All

Murder rates 20 TIMES higher than normal.

Suicide rates 20-30 TIMES higher than normal.

Domestic violence rates 20-30 TIMES higher than normal.

Serious communicable disease rates 20-30 TIMES higher than normal.

Homosexuality should be punishable by death.


26 posted on 06/21/2017 4:03:53 PM PDT by TheTimeOfMan (A time for peace and a time for war)
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To: july4thfreedomfoundation

Me, too. Never heard of the guy. He must have sucked (no pun intended).


27 posted on 06/21/2017 4:06:26 PM PDT by Andy'smom (Proud member of the basket of deplorables)
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To: july4thfreedomfoundation

He was ok - bridge between when we had Nick Kazcur and got Sebastian Vollmer. Not as good as either, he tried hard, did ‘ok’. I was happy to see he was treated well by Pioli. Personally I’m flabbergasted by ‘gay’ people always wanting to talk about it.


28 posted on 06/21/2017 4:09:01 PM PDT by major-pelham
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To: Ennis85

I reject him. I won’t go to any games in which he participates and I won’t watch his games on TV. So there!


29 posted on 06/21/2017 4:20:47 PM PDT by arthurus
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To: TheTimeOfMan
Homosexuality should be punishable by death.

Ofentimes it is, though not in a law court.

30 posted on 06/21/2017 4:23:48 PM PDT by arthurus
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To: TheDon

When my younger brother told me, he broke the news by saying “I’m gay”. Since then, he’s also added “I’m autistic”.


31 posted on 06/21/2017 4:26:17 PM PDT by OrangeHoof (Get used to it - President Donald J. Trump)
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To: Ennis85

“star”?

seriously?

started 20 games and played in 52 games total for the patriots and chiefs over a six year career.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ryan_O’Callaghan#New_England_Patriots

oh, yeah, right. The Progs now label him a “star” because he announced he’s a homo.


32 posted on 06/21/2017 4:27:18 PM PDT by catnipman ( Cat Nipman: Vote Republican in 2012 and only be called racist one more time!)
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To: Walrus
And most of the “switch hitters” are women ...WNBA, LPGA ...

Men's figure skating, men's diving...

33 posted on 06/21/2017 4:28:06 PM PDT by OrangeHoof (Get used to it - President Donald J. Trump)
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To: Ennis85

That is his problem.

Most have far greater ones.

And, contrary to all idiot beliefs, we really do not give a Dorkbama where you stick it, so stick it. In a bedroom, car, shack, or football locker room and just don’t moan.

Live with it, itiot.


34 posted on 06/21/2017 4:37:11 PM PDT by Da Coyote
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To: Ennis85

The definition of a Deviant. When you kill the anguish born of your own disgust with a thing.


35 posted on 06/21/2017 5:19:33 PM PDT by TalBlack
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To: TalBlack

This guy will probably off himself as his mental disturbance continues to plague him.


36 posted on 06/21/2017 5:42:30 PM PDT by hal ogen (First Amendment or Reeducation camp?)
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To: TheDon

It would be more accurate to say, “I’m sexually attracted to men, not women.”

Aw. Don’t be so binary-minded. /s


37 posted on 06/21/2017 5:44:41 PM PDT by LeoTDB69
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To: TheTimeOfMan

Congrats, stupid post of the day.


38 posted on 06/21/2017 7:28:52 PM PDT by Paradox ("Donald Trump", the biggest Strawman ever created.)
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To: Ennis85

I haven’t read the article, I haven’t even read what you posted, just the headline.
My initial response was,
1: Was he IN torment because he is a queer?
2: Was he tormented BECAUSE he is a queer?
3: Was he TORMENTING a queer?
4: Was he tormented BY a queer?
Ultimately the needle on my givashitometer didn’t move more than a single degree.


39 posted on 06/21/2017 8:02:11 PM PDT by 5th MEB (Progressives in the open; --- FIRE FOR EFFECT!!)
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To: Dr. Pritchett

[Not rare enough.]

Amen to that.


40 posted on 06/21/2017 9:04:54 PM PDT by SaveFerris (Hebrews 13:2 Do not forget to entertain strangers, for ... some have unwittingly entertained angels)
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