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Facing down the divorce industry: Thank you, Ben and Jennifer
New York Post ^ | March 13, 2017 | By Naomi Schaefer Riley

Posted on 03/15/2017 12:05:10 PM PDT by TBP

Two years after the star couple separated, a source told People magazine that they “are giving things another try.” They love each other, said another source, and they “really, really love their kids, and those kids love their parents.”

For many couples, though, this isn’t enough. Though the divorce rate has decreased since the high point of Baby Boomer splits in the 1980s, it’s still almost 35 percent for couples who married in the ’90s. And frankly, it’s only that low because more and more Americans don’t bother to marry at all. (Cohabiting couples have an even higher rate of splitting up.)

There are surprisingly powerful forces in the modern world that push men and women to conclude that divorce is the best way to resolve differences in a marriage. We’re surrounded by a culture that trivializes marriage and normalizes divorce. Not only is divorce seen as the first step to self-actualization in shows like HBO’s “Divorce” or Bravo’s “Untying the Knot,” many husbands and wives also have the impression that it will be easy to find someone else. All of the dating apps fool people into thinking there’s a pool of people just waiting for them to jump in.

Diane Medved, a clinical psychologist and author of the new book, “Don’t Divorce: Powerful Arguments for Saving and Revitalizing Your Marriage,” warns about what she calls “the divorce industry.”

(Excerpt) Read more at nypost.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial; Miscellaneous; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: benaffleck; bennifer; divorce; gossip; jennifergarner
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Glad to see someone bucking the social trend on marriage -- and high-profile celebrities at that.

I guess Ben can keep hi Venture card.

1 posted on 03/15/2017 12:05:10 PM PDT by TBP
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To: TBP

Life is short.

There’s no reason to be miserable because of someone else’s view on marriage.


2 posted on 03/15/2017 12:13:19 PM PDT by mom4melody (,)
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To: TBP

Ben’s not worth it.


3 posted on 03/15/2017 12:16:00 PM PDT by ImJustAnotherOkie
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To: TBP

This time get a nanny that looks like Mrs Doubtfire.

4 posted on 03/15/2017 12:16:09 PM PDT by Snickering Hound
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To: TBP

Just love her dimples . . .


5 posted on 03/15/2017 12:16:35 PM PDT by laweeks
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To: ImJustAnotherOkie; TBP

You are correct...ben is not worth it.


6 posted on 03/15/2017 12:18:15 PM PDT by ColdOne ((I miss my poochie... Tasha 2000~3/14/11~ Best Election Ever!)
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To: TBP

Affleck finally got sober. I’m betting that was her ‘all or nothing’ demand of him. Hope it sticks!

Being married to a drunk is NO fun. Been there. Done that. Never again.


7 posted on 03/15/2017 12:18:41 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have 'Hobbies.' I'm developing a robust Post-Apocalyptic skill set!)
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To: ImJustAnotherOkie

Agreed. “Facing down the divorce industry” is admirable if you’re talking about a couple rough patches in the marriage, but when you have one spouse who serially returns to booze and womanizing after repeated attempts at reconciliation, I’m not sure that is to be celebrated. Its one thing to recognize that your spouse is human and makes mistakes — even big mistakes — that you can try to forgive and move on from. Its another thing to be a doormat for repeated bad behavior.


8 posted on 03/15/2017 12:19:29 PM PDT by Opinionated Blowhard ("When the people find they can vote themselves money, that will herald the end of the republic.")
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To: mom4melody

Agreed. Ping to Post #7. :)


9 posted on 03/15/2017 12:19:35 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have 'Hobbies.' I'm developing a robust Post-Apocalyptic skill set!)
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To: mom4melody

“There’s no reason to be miserable because of someone else’s view on marriage.”

What if that “someone else” is God?


10 posted on 03/15/2017 12:20:16 PM PDT by utahagen
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To: TBP

P.S. I LOVE these types of posts - they give FReepers a chance to blow off a lot of steam, LOL!


11 posted on 03/15/2017 12:20:57 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have 'Hobbies.' I'm developing a robust Post-Apocalyptic skill set!)
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No one should have to remain married to a bad person just because there are children. Try, yes. Try for a few years. But at some point, you need two people actually in the marriage.

And for this particular famous family, congrats. Hope they work it out.


12 posted on 03/15/2017 12:21:04 PM PDT by Yaelle
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To: mom4melody

Why would you marry someone who made you miserable in the first place?


13 posted on 03/15/2017 12:23:07 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Not a Romantic, not a hero worshiper and stop trying to tug my heartstrings. It tickles! (pink bow))
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To: ImJustAnotherOkie

I’m sure Ben had “presidential ambitions” before this fracas. Liberal, handsome politician.


14 posted on 03/15/2017 12:23:26 PM PDT by GuavaCheesePuff
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

Maybe he still does....and THAT’S the reason she’s not divorcing him.


15 posted on 03/15/2017 12:26:43 PM PDT by Buckeye McFrog
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I just love it when couples get divorced but say, “we’re still friends”...especially if they have kids. However, abuse, adultery, and addictions are the three reasons divorce makes sense, unless reforms take place.


16 posted on 03/15/2017 12:35:16 PM PDT by goodnesswins (Say hello to President Trump)
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To: Snickering Hound

Nice shoes! Sidis last forever.


17 posted on 03/15/2017 12:45:43 PM PDT by FoxInSocks ("Hope is not a course of action." -- M. O'Neal, USMC)
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To: Buckeye McFrog

I think he might. He’s also Hispanic as well, the liberals will love him for that.


18 posted on 03/15/2017 12:58:46 PM PDT by GuavaCheesePuff
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To: TBP

Need marriage help?

Go to

www.retrouvaille.org

Three-phase process—almost guaranteed results. :)


19 posted on 03/15/2017 1:12:06 PM PDT by Joy in the Journey (is not the lazy man's checkbook)
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To: TBP

This isn’t the place for such a posting. It belongs on an Enquirer message board


20 posted on 03/15/2017 1:30:25 PM PDT by confederatecarpetbag
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