Maybe start by shunning the political party that classifies, judges and assesses everyone’s ability by skin color.
An actual conservative post. Thank you. It was looking like this thread was going to be dominated by ignorant bigotry.
I’ve seen her picture, maybe they were just saying they weren’t attracted to black girls to spare your feelings instead of saying they weren’t attracted to ugly girls.
I am attracted to black chicks so by her theory I am not a racist.
Step 1) Stop obsessing over race 24/7/365
Step 2) Start doing something productive w/ your life
Nothing like having your mother-in-law describe how she was forced to watch 300 people machine gunned to death in a German reprisal action to add a more sober perspective on the meaning of "oppression". Something about how, "The blood flowed like water in the gutters," is something you don't forget.
She must come from and live in a fairly comfortable environment to have the luxury of indulging such a mass of racial neuroses.
If I saw micro aggression everywhere I looked, I’d probably go nuts too. Developing a thick skin is definitely helpful in life. More people, of every color, need to do that.
She sounds like the least qualified person in the world to give the answers promised in the title. Despite the amount of money she spends on a shrink and the drugs he prescribes, she’s still a nut case.
Don’t let other people change your opinion of yourself. It’s not just Black people who get $hit upon for their looks. It happens to people of all appearances.
There are people who like you. Hang out with them. Never mind what some people think.
Leave the Dem Plantation.
This is actually great. A perfect illustration of how deleterious liberalism is to the mental health of black people in America!
I read the WHOLE thing. She never gets around to explaining how to stay sane ergo she is insane. I see many beautiful black women and I have never met any other man who could not find a pretty women in any of the races. I am certain that manhood trumps race every time. But it doesn’t always trump an ugly mind. No matter her looks, race, or religion she is ugly.
If you go looking for offense, you’re going to find it. If you’re perpetually looking for offense, you’re perpetually offended. No one likes being around such people, it’s miserable. But, it’s a self-perpetuating cycle for the perpetually aggrieved. They perceive this discomfort surrounding them as yet more evidence of racism, since that’s their mission in life, to find it, identify it and denounce it.
How about listening to what Martin Luther King actually said and just go into any given situation with your head up and your mind open, civil, polite and engaging? Wouldn’t that be a much more pleasant life?
Sure, there are assholes in the world, who will judge you wrongly. That happens to everybody. Dismiss them, put them out of your mind. Associate with those who respond well to you, and you to them. Live your life. Associate freely. Pursue your happiness. It’s what this country was built upon.
Why doesn’t she just move to Capetown——they’d love her there.
Lordy.the whining is tiresome.
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This is a case of what is going on in his head has to be the fault of and blamed on others.
I’m not pure white but have never spent time in my life dwelling on the color of my skin or cultivating the fantasy that everyone else was out to get me just because I do not look like they do. I was too busy working and figuring out how to succeed in the real world. I did not blame others for my failures and I take credit for my accomplishments. To be blunt about it, no one can make you equal. This is something you have to believe and establish for yourself.
If I do not like the conversation I have with myself then it is up to me to change the situation and the conversation. No one else can do that for you.
The difference between this guy and a hundred million successful people is that we take responsibility for ourselves and our actions. He made the choice, and it was a choice, long ago to be a helpless victim. He has succeeded in his goal.
Staying sane is easier when you realize the world doesn’t revolve around you.
Median IQ:
Asians, 110
Whites, 100
Blacks, 85
As long as it is forbidden to talk about median IQ, the disparities in income, wealth, and accomplishment will be blamed—as in this article—on white racism or “white supremacism.”
The law should insist on equality of opportunity and equality of rights.
Poor poor pitiful me.
I genuinely don't understand this. People have preferences. What's the big deal?
I think I found what her problem might be. She’s obsessed with being black. Did a google and the whole first page is black, black, black. Geez, take a break already. Spend a week. Just one week. Without writing about blacks. Write about trees, but not black walnuts. Write about puppies, but not black labs. Write about the weather but not black storm clouds.
BTW, there is nothing wrong with asking someone if they work somewhere. What the heck, Moo whined about being asked the same.