Step 1) Stop obsessing over race 24/7/365
Step 2) Start doing something productive w/ your life
3) Look objectively and realize that there are many people far worse off in life than you are, say a prayer of thanks, and move on with your day
Exactly. Most of the slights she blames on racism- people bumping into her, flinging their wet hair on her, confusing her with other people; these things happen to me, and people of all races.
If you spend all of your time looking for slights, you will find them no matter who you are. Those looking for racism 24/7 are destined to find what they see as racism.