Seems you’re guesses are pretty good. I got the same impression about the guy. He hardly said one word that I can recall.
About that female being stoned. I’d say pretty damned stoned, maybe some powder in it too.
I just remember the little girl asking something “....can we see/do that mama?” and gets brushed off. Horrible.
I had to come back to tell you - in watching the July 4 video where Lavish was live-streaming from the car while they got high-—her little girl says something to the effect of “can I show snapchat my fireworks?” and Lavish replies with “this isn’t snapchat, it’s Facebook live! but sure you can show your fireworks!”
That’s when the little girl holds up the big package of fireworks to show the ‘audience’, as her mother erratically jerks the camera around with the big blunt in her hand, dripping lit ashes all over.