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I’m not a sales assistant (Whiny rich black girl)
Salon.com ^ | Dec 10, 2014 | Stacey Patton

Posted on 12/12/2014 9:16:04 AM PST by Second Amendment First

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To: Second Amendment First
microaggressions,

Bugger off, Stacey.

41 posted on 12/12/2014 9:42:53 AM PST by NorthMountain
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To: SZonian

My late father was one of nine children born to cotton farmers in Georgia during the 1930s. My grandparents didn’t have slaves nor hired help. My father and his brothers and sisters were the ones who worked the farm alongside their parents. Needless to say, as each child turned 15 years of age, they one by one hightailed it out of Georgia to make a living unrelated to cotton. To this day, I don’t recall any of them having an aversion to cotton as clothing or decoration.


42 posted on 12/12/2014 9:44:55 AM PST by MO Repub mom
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To: CatherineofAragon

A step up from the t-shirts and baggy shorts they wear in da hood.

Not much. Her real lack of style has nothing to do with the high fashion outfits she has in her closet.


43 posted on 12/12/2014 9:45:17 AM PST by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives In My Heart Forever)
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To: Second Amendment First

“My ancestors in Virginia had to pick that (cotton),” I said wearily.

Cotton was a product of the deep South, not VA. Tobacco was the staple in VA. She should be protesting the sight of cigars and cigarettes in gas stations.


44 posted on 12/12/2014 9:46:20 AM PST by kalee
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To: Second Amendment First
>>When that happens I usually give the sales rep my dead-fish-eye look that says: Did I ask you how much it was? I asked you if I could see the damn thing.

What a sweet, non-threatening reply. Can't imagine why that would be a problem with store personnel.

45 posted on 12/12/2014 9:48:20 AM PST by pabianice (LINE)
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To: Second Amendment First

I hope this lady never comes by our farm. At least half of it would be seen as a micro-agression to her.


46 posted on 12/12/2014 9:48:48 AM PST by SelmaLee
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To: Second Amendment First
“I don’t work here, lady!” I snapped.

She shot me a look as if I had slapped her in the face...

Because you basically DID, you snotty b****.

47 posted on 12/12/2014 9:49:15 AM PST by Nea Wood
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To: Jim from C-Town

I’m a fat ,white OLD man. Most of the time I wear shirts or vests that have NRA, Browning, Ruger or S&W logos on them.
I do not get bothered by anyone and store ‘Assistants” are most cordial


48 posted on 12/12/2014 9:53:41 AM PST by GOYAKLA (Waiting for the Golden Screw to be removed from Obama's navel and his a$$ falls off!)
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To: goldstategop

“How typical is this young woman of Black America?”

Except for being more upscale I think she is pretty typical.


49 posted on 12/12/2014 9:54:23 AM PST by Brooklyn Attitude (Things are only going to get worse.)
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To: Second Amendment First

Maybe the ‘authoress’ would rather other people call the manager and ask what she is doing in the store.

I used to make package pickups at the Airport and NEVER got mistaken for a passenger because I didn’t wear flip flops, shorts or needed a shave or haircut.

The employees would mostly be dressed in a uniform or have ID around their neck...We were basically of the Airlines inasmuch as I was contracted by them to do pick ups. My ‘dress’ was shoes, slacks, collared shirt tucked in if I was wearing jacket or out if not, haircut & shave. I ‘refused’ to wear a ‘Company shirt’ because I was a Contractor...

I think now you need beaucoup ID just to park under the terminal or ‘in the back’ and have some kind of Company shirt or uniform.


50 posted on 12/12/2014 9:57:00 AM PST by xrmusn (6/98) IF I were to ever agree with most LIBS then we both would most always be wrong.)
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To: Second Amendment First

That’s funny, over my Lifetime I’ve had many people ask me if I worked in the Store where I was shopping.

I never thought to it was offensive. Then again, I’m not part of the Perpetually Offended Class.


51 posted on 12/12/2014 9:57:05 AM PST by Kickass Conservative (If you thought the Mulatto Marxist was bad, wait until the Menopausal Marxist is Elected.)
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To: MO Repub mom

Wife’s grandfather grew up under very similar circumstances in Arkansas...


52 posted on 12/12/2014 9:57:26 AM PST by SZonian (Throwing our allegiances to political parties in the long run gave away our liberty.)
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To: Second Amendment First

Without going into unproductive comparison of various holocausts and genocides, cotton is the icon that reminds us why our ancestors were snatched from their homeland, carted across the planet and subjected to centuries of nonstop horrors to build the infrastructure and wealth of this nation.


Her knowledge of the history of slavery and cotton is a bit lacking. It may well be that her ancestors worked in the cotton fields, but since Congress outlawed the importation of slaves in 1808—before the cotton boom had a chance to get going—her ancestors were likely “snatched” for the maintainance of other cash crops. Sugar cane, rice, indigo and tobacco come to mind.


53 posted on 12/12/2014 9:57:38 AM PST by hanamizu
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What a tool. Good God.

I get approached all the time in stores, and my wife and I laugh about it.

It is because I wear a shirt and tie to work, and I am white.


54 posted on 12/12/2014 9:58:24 AM PST by Old Yeller (Civil rights are for civilized people.)
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To: Second Amendment First
t usually starts as I step inside the store. “Hi, can I help you?” from sales reps with an over-penetrating gaze never really feels like a warm greeting. I’m prepared to be watched closely, or ignored when I actually do need assistance because they assume that I won’t—or can’t—purchase anything. When I ask to see an item, they quickly tell me the price, then pause for my reaction to confirm that I’m pre-qualified to see the merchandise. When that happens I usually give the sales rep my dead-fish-eye look that says: Did I ask you how much it was? I asked you if I could see the damn thing.

Hey, lady, it happens to WHITE PEOPLE JUST AS WELL..............

55 posted on 12/12/2014 9:59:13 AM PST by Red Badger (If you compromise with evil, you just get more evil..........................)
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To: Second Amendment First
So, she is saying...rather exhaustively...that the world is filled with ignorant boors? Wow. What a shocker. I am certain, based on her evidence, that no white person has ever encountered boorish, ignorant behavior while out shopping. It simply can't be.

On the day that the Staten Island grand jury announced that there’d be no indictment in the controversial police choking death of Eric Garner, my spirit was weighed down with sadness. I was still grieving the loss of Trayvon Martin, Mike Brown and the non-indictments in the Ezell Ford case and others.

Racist b!+ch.

56 posted on 12/12/2014 9:59:23 AM PST by Bloody Sam Roberts (Laws that forbid the carrying of arms disarm only those who are not inclined to commit crimes.)
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To: goldstategop
Hey what about MY grievance?

Once wearing my brand new (Brooks Bros) 2d Lt USAF uniform, I was stopped on the street by a large African-American? Black? Negress? Woman of Color? who was irate about the poor bus service!

That was MACROaggression and unveiled hostility, but nowhere as bad as the frequent questions I was forced to endure about postal deliveries.
Is there not a federal program that can help me overcome these early traumatic events suffered in the service of our nation?

57 posted on 12/12/2014 10:00:33 AM PST by Kenny Bunk (The fate of the Republic rests in the hands of the '15 -16 Congress. God help us.)
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To: NorthMountain

“microaggressions, Bugger off, Stacey.”

If she flips out at the sight of a cotton plant then the sight of white skin (like that of her oppressors) must really be offensive. Someone should remind Miss Boo-zee that she has benefited greatly from the slavery her ancestors endured since without it she would be in Africa, dirt poor, hungry and with a bone in her nose instead of shopping at Sach’s.


58 posted on 12/12/2014 10:01:13 AM PST by Brooklyn Attitude (Things are only going to get worse.)
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To: Second Amendment First

This person thinks these things never happen to other people, the world revolves around her.


59 posted on 12/12/2014 10:01:29 AM PST by GeronL (Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
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To: Second Amendment First

hey girl....... you write for Salon.

That automatically relegates you to the human trash bin


60 posted on 12/12/2014 10:04:34 AM PST by bert ((K.E.; N.P.; GOPc.;+12, 73, ..... Obama is public enemy #1)
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