Love is supposed to MEAN commitment. By defininq love out of existence we’re left with a loveless, commitmentless, meaninqless existence.
That’s what happens when man makes God in his own imaqe.
The only way out of this is the real God - who is the Giver of REAL love. The One who willinqly died for those who cursed Him and nailed Him to a tree.
The sacrifice from Heaven that ever surprises us, when we permit it to.
“Love is supposed to MEAN commitment.”
In storybooks, sure. This is the real world, where people fall in and OUT of love all the time. I would prefer a lasting commitment that is not dependent on such fleeting fancies, and the only way to have that is if there are consequences for betraying such a commitment.