All I can say is that I’ve been married to the same man for 54 years. Of course that makes us of a different generation and old fashioned, I guess.
I am in my 60’s, and haven’t dated in 9 years, no online porn, just the women now are brain dead or brain washed.
And so more societies will cease to exist by reducing replacement rates to untenable levels. Japan’s is so low it arguably cannot recover ever, Russia’s is low enough “procreate!” is becoming a sociopolitical imperative message, IIRC Italy is also dangerously (if not terminally) low, and USA’s is plummeting (down 10% in 10 years and falling fast). No point in monogamous productive mating if it’s at best discouraged and at worst punished; meanwhile, other cultures are prolific in procreation.
My 28 year old son has been telling me for the past 10 years that the girls his age are “broken”.
Although he did find one and get married this last summer, and she is not broken.
Too many of them of that generation are drama queens with all that goes with it (in my opinion).
So many girls are bleeding heart liberals they make men sick to be near them. Men don’t want to marry a girl that then votes to tax him to death. I’ve known countless romances and marriages ruined by the girl’s liberalism.
Interesting and sad...while the muzzle men collect females and populate the world...these men just don’t want to deal with females if today...(yeah...I see what spell check did....leaving it)
Online porn is a burden, not a form of relief. If men are seeking 10s, 9s or 8s (like porn provides) then they will get the attitude that comes with a ‘10’. There are LOTS of real women who don’t come with the attittude.
Furthermore, abondonment of Christianity has lead to meaningless marrriages that end in divorce and adultery. Under a Christian marriage, two people become one unit where it is more important to consider what is best for the Unit rather than the self. A civil marriage without Chrisianity is just an enhanced date between two individuals.
Liberals have driven our nations cultural standards, morals and values into an abysmal quagmire of godless confusion.
Here are the fundamental problems:
1) Shame has gone the way of personal responsibility. There is a lawyer somewhere that will make sure it wasn’t your fault and you are due just compensation or favorable treatment. Our government is all too eager to support this endeavor so that the sheeple can be added to the list of dependents and loyal subjects.
2) Personal honor for self and family is dead. There is nothing left of self respect in much or our nation. Rehab is celebrated as a triumph over some evil disease. What is in a family name? How many young people are afraid to embarrass their family?
3) Family has been redefined. It’s ok for people to be married, divorced, have baby daddies, or no fathers. Abortion is an accepted form of birth control.
4) Respect/Character - Respect is awarded, when there is any at all. It is not earned. On the streets of the inner city, in the halls of Congress, in the home, celbrities, etc. The desire to have one’s character and virtues held up as an example to emulate by the nature of their character has been lost.
5) Religion - Basis of all morals and values and a faith in something greater than yourself has eroded in favor of worship and adherence to government authority.
6) Logic/Truth - Gone.
I knew my first wife from high school. She had a baby while we were married (not mine). Texas would not grant a divorce while she was pregnant. Back then I was told the law stated I was the father simply because I was married to her. As a result she asked for child support. My attorney told me that she would probably get it too. I then counter filed that she was an unfit mother due to her adultery and I wanted custody. Her lawyer told her that it could happen. She dropped all requests for child support and I signed away any rights I had.
I’ve been married to my current (and final) wife for 26 years now. If she passes before me I’ll date but never marry again. Unless Jennifer Anniston or Shania Twain chases me down but I don’t see that happening.
I told my 20 year old son. You want a woman, rent one.... It will be cheaper in the long run.
What about STD’s he questioned... Still cheaper than getting married, have a kid, and then she divorces your behind and takes everything you have for the next 18 years...
Add to that the fact that many young women are a small step above whores.
They’ll do anything to land a rich man, married or not. They don’t plan on staying with him, but they do plan on getting half of his wealth in the inevitable divorce. These women make a handsome living snagging gullible men, until even the best plastic surgeons can no longer fool the next mark.
We are Babylon.
I suppose he should tell his boys to just go gay, then. /sarc
I weeded out my initial list by no love of God, tattoos, piercings, and political views.
There is no doubt that in popular culture, politics, academia, and now even religion, business and the military, the “war” is against men, not women.
Men have no need or respect for women:
Sounds like Islam is coming to America and our men will be happier than they are now!
witness the results of women’s lib and the liberal agenda
Yup. Done did that.
Another piece along the lines of the Instapundit's wife book about men, especially Millenials, tuning out of society for online porn, and video games.
Yup. That's me.
Our bodies and brains are naturally wired for a human male-female connection. If large numbers of young men are forsaking this for online porn, it bodes very badly for our future.
Far cheaper, more peaceful, and more satisfying than the alternative. Plus, college girls never age, and dogs never give anything but joy and are happy to grow old together with you.
I must admit, I'm one more bad date away from giving this solution a shot. 2014 has been a vicious and unconscionable year in my dating life.