I am in my 60’s, and haven’t dated in 9 years, no online porn, just the women now are brain dead or brain washed.
That is amazing considering in your age group lot more women than men in the pool.
It would depend a lot where you go. The old saw about meeting them at church has a lot of wisdom.
I live part time in a 55 and older waiting to die compound in S Florida. My single male friends refuse to date most of the local liberal trash. Unfortunately S. Florida is infested with RATS.
Personal observation: the best time to meet someone to marry is in your early to mid-20s. I even saw a TED talk where a woman will marry or meet the man she will marry before she is 30 in the vast majority of cases.
Yet I ran into amazing bias when I married right after college to a man I met in college. I was told by women in their 30s and 40s that I had to define myself, explore relationships (including sexually), establish my career - THEN I could get married. They outright told me I was too young to marry at 23.
The problem with their view is that it prevents women from committing to men and life paths at the ideal time to do so, and the marriage pool winnows immensely as good guy marry the girls with more traditional views OR get burned by “I want to commit and she won’t”, so he gets trained NOT to commit by the time feminism says she can consider settling down past 30.
Feminism tells women to spend their 20s being freewheeling free love creatures as men would like to be, pushing away men who would start a family and breaking their hearts as well as ruining their own instincts to fall in love with those with whom they have sex. By the time each side is 30, he’s skeptical because of the repeated breakups while she’s built up a habit of distance and backup plans.
The end result is fewer marriages, less commitment when people do marry and more men who see no point in marrying because he can get sex without commitment.
I’m 43 and married. I agree completely with the brain dead and brainwashed concept and it’s getting worse. I can’t stand airhead and terminally stupid.
Don’t give up stockpirate, although I know how you feel. I see some pretty inane behaviour from some acquaintances, right from drinking too much to ridiculous hair styles, clothes, and some even getting tatoos - and they’re over 50! Brain dead and brain washed are a good way to put it.
I am hoping my son finds someone nice. Thankfully my daughter is happily married to her high-school sweetheart - a mom’s answer to prayer. Good luck!
I take offense. Perhaps you are living in the wrong state?
Sorry but I have to disagree that all women in their 60’s are brain dead or brainwashed! I haven’t dated in a while because most of the men I meet are “needy” and want more of a caretaker rather than a partner. Oh, and they would rather just sit around rather than participate in life!
I am not brain dead or brain washed... ;)