Look at your post describing your wild feelings and butchery, and a dead daughter, and disregarding what actually happened.
It sounds like you would have rushed in, seen who it was and what had happened, and instead of ushering him out to the patio, and calling the cops, that you would murder the guy as an expression of some inner personal problems, what I call weakness.
I would never want you around when I am dealing with serious situations.
Ansel12, you can come to any conclusion you wish here.
If he’s on my two year old daughter’s bed, I have no way of knowing what I just prevented.
He’s toast, and your opinion about it doesn’t change my thoughts on this at all.