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My life of hell in an Afghan harem (Misadventures of Jewish feminist in burkaland)
NY Post ^ | September 21, 2013 | 10:55pm | Phyllis Chesler

Posted on 09/22/2013 2:52:22 PM PDT by Zhang Fei

I once lived in a harem in Afghanistan.

I did not enter the kingdom as a diplomat, soldier, teacher, journalist or foreign aid worker. I came as a young Jewish bride of the son of one of the country’s wealthiest men. I was held in a type of captivity — but it’s not as if I had been kidnapped.

I walked into it of my own free will.

It is 1959. I am only 18 when my prince — a dark, older, handsome, westernized foreigner who had traveled abroad from his native home in Afghanistan — bedazzles me.

We meet at Bard College, where he is studying economics and politics and I am studying literature on scholarship.

Abdul-Kareem is the son of one of the founders of the modern banking system in Afghanistan. He wears designers sunglasses and bespoke suits and when he visits New York City, he stays at the Plaza.

He is also Muslim.

I am Jewish, raised in an Orthodox home in Borough Park, Brooklyn, the daughter of Polish immigrants. My dad worked door-to-door selling soda and seltzer.

But none of this matters. We don’t talk about religion. Instead, we stay up all night discussing film, opera and theater. We are bohemians.

We date for two years. Then, when I express my desire to travel, he asks me to marry him.

(Excerpt) Read more at news.com.au ...


TOPICS: Extended News; Foreign Affairs; News/Current Events; War on Terror
KEYWORDS: afghanistan; islam; midnightattheoasis; muslimwomen; muslimworld; wot
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Way before the Taliban was born, back in 1959, when Afghanistan was a "moderate" Muslim country, a Jewish coed marries her exotic Afghan suitor, and discovers she's not in Kansas any more.
1 posted on 09/22/2013 2:52:22 PM PDT by Zhang Fei
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To: Zhang Fei

Oops. Link should have been:

http://nypost.com/2013/09/21/my-life-of-hell-in-an-afghan-harem/


2 posted on 09/22/2013 2:53:29 PM PDT by Zhang Fei (Let us pray that peace be now restored to the world and that God will preserve it always.)
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Old story line....ignorant females marrying mussies then regretting it later....suicide rate is extremely high for these bimbos.
I have no sympathy for them at all.


3 posted on 09/22/2013 2:54:49 PM PDT by rrrod (at home in Medellin Colombia)
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To: Zhang Fei
or anywhere in a civilized culture.
Islam is akin to HELL on Earth.
sorta like Chicago on HELL Night all year long.

4 posted on 09/22/2013 3:01:27 PM PDT by skinkinthegrass (who'll take tomorrow,$pend it all today;who can take your income & tax it all away..0'Blowfly can :-)
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To: rrrod

I guess my take on this, is that she was naive and didn’t know what she was getting into. She was in love, and her husband seemed to be westernized. And if she had never been exposed to the Muslim world, she wouldn’t have known how she would be treated.


5 posted on 09/22/2013 3:02:34 PM PDT by Dilbert San Diego
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To: Zhang Fei

This is worth reading and should be given to every teenage girl in America.


6 posted on 09/22/2013 3:06:02 PM PDT by wintertime
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To: Zhang Fei

some idiot Jewish girl in my law school class did the same thing

married a Saudi

came back in about 2 years


7 posted on 09/22/2013 3:06:30 PM PDT by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: yldstrk

She was extremely lucky to have escaped.


8 posted on 09/22/2013 3:07:20 PM PDT by Travis McGee (www.EnemiesForeignAndDomestic.com)
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To: Travis McGee

Yep..I know one with a similar story...she lets 2 kids behind ......collage educated didnt know there would be 3 other wives.......

She left a nice happy girl..came back real tough.

Sigh.....Bacon is Good,Dogs are nice,Women are people.


9 posted on 09/22/2013 3:14:03 PM PDT by Therapsid (Communism has killed 50-60 Million people in only 50 yrs.)
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To: Zhang Fei

Twelve years after 9-11, I still wait in vain to learn anything at all about Islam that isn’t completely disgusting.


10 posted on 09/22/2013 3:14:04 PM PDT by Maceman (Just say "NO" to tyranny.)
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“My parents are outraged and hysterical.”

But she didn’t listen to them, and they’re likely the only ones who’d forgive her for it. She should be going door to door like her father, telling her story to the new young idiots out there.


11 posted on 09/22/2013 3:16:42 PM PDT by OldNewYork (Biden '13. Impeach now.)
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I thought Abdul-Kareem was a basketball player.


12 posted on 09/22/2013 3:24:10 PM PDT by Conspiracy Guy (White People are Racist for Not Caring About Motives of Black Mass Murderers, So I am a racist.)
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Interesting read ZF......a fake ‘religion’ indeed...


13 posted on 09/22/2013 3:27:29 PM PDT by virgil283 (When the sun spins, the cross appears, and the skies burn red)
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a dark, older, handsome, westernized foreigner who had traveled abroad from his native home in Afghanistan — bedazzles me.

The article should be titled "Misadventures of Jewish dumbass in burkaland"

14 posted on 09/22/2013 3:27:49 PM PDT by Spirochete (Does the FedGov have the attributes of a legitimate government?)
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This is a very important read.


15 posted on 09/22/2013 3:30:29 PM PDT by Lazamataz (Early 2009 to 7/21/2013 - RIP my little girl Cathy. You were the best cat ever. You will be missed.)
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She is very lucky she got out.

A girl I grew up with we to college for nursing school. She met a Saudi resident physician (at the hospital associated w/the school). It was a whirlwind romance. I was a “quickie” Bridesmaid (actually one of the witnesses to the civil ceremony. This was pre 9/11 and I thought he was marrying her to gain US citizenship. I don’t believe that was the case. She dropped out of school when she got pregnant; their 1st child was a boy. They went to Saudi Arabia for a visit to show his family his son. They NEVER came back. No contact at all in the ensuing years. When Facebook started up & I started looking up old friends I NEVER found her. None of the other HS friends ever heard from her again. She just went poof. Disappeared.

Her dad passed away when we were in late years of grade school; and I never knew her moms first name. She had much older brothers (who I also tried to find on FB but no avail).

I wonder if she got out, wanted to stay, was made to stay or worse.

The writer of this article is very, very lucky.


16 posted on 09/22/2013 3:32:03 PM PDT by PennsylvaniaMom (Just because you are paranoid, it doesn't mean they aren't out to get you...)
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To: Zhang Fei; a fool in paradise

Dumb broadhood hasn’t changed much, has it?


17 posted on 09/22/2013 3:33:41 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Bad things are wrong! Ice cream is delicious!)
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To: Therapsid
Bacon is Good,Dogs are nice,Women are people.

That my FRiend is a brilliant synopsis.

18 posted on 09/22/2013 3:34:38 PM PDT by Tijeras_Slim
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To: Zhang Fei; Revolting cat!

Well at least she has walked away to be able to pen 50 Shades of Saffron.


19 posted on 09/22/2013 3:35:32 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (America 2013 - STUCK ON STUPID)
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To: Zhang Fei

Learn anything Phyllis?


20 posted on 09/22/2013 3:35:56 PM PDT by Navy Patriot (Join the Democrats, it's not Fascism when WE do it, and the Constitution and law mean what WE say.)
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