You said, “So far as I can tell, there is nothing that happened to this girl that isn’t regularly solicited by other women every day, so the actual events, degrading as they may be, do not constitute a rape.”
That has to be the stupidest logic I’ve heard in a long, long time.
Some people choose to drink arsenic so somebody forcing arsenic on me is CLEARLY not murder...
Neither does the ingestion of arsenic prove it was forced, which is exactly what her defenders are inferring.
It may not be pretty, but this is what "presumption of innocence" looks like.