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US married father's horror after wife places his child with an adopted family without telling him
Daily Mail [UK] ^ | 3 December 2012 | Nina Golgowski

Posted on 12/04/2012 12:24:52 PM PST by Slings and Arrows

A Texas man is battling for custody of his first-born daughter after his wife successfully gave her up for adoption without telling him - to a family who now refuses to return the girl.

Terry Achane, 31, a drill instructor in South Carolina, says it was just days after he left his pregnant wife for his new job out of state that she quietly signed over their unborn baby to a family of seven in Utah.

His newborn baby, whom he had wanted to name Teleah, was given to Jared and Kristi Frei, who now say the girl is theirs and won't give her back without a fight.

Mr Achane says that he and his wife, Tira Bland, were having marital problems not long after learning she was pregnant in 2010, leading to her decision and his now spiraling struggle today despite a judge ordering the girl returned to him last October.

The now ex-husband says Ms Bland had suggested having an abortion or giving their child up for adoption - fearing she would end up as a single mother - but he said no, encouraging their daughter's birth.

It was just months later in February of 2011 that Mr Achane found himself sent to Fort Jackson in South Carolina for work, believing he’d leave and come back a new dad.

Ten days after his move, however, his wife went gave birth to a premature baby and signed away their child before cutting all contact with her husband.

(Excerpt) Read more at dailymail.co.uk ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Extended News; US: Texas; US: Utah
KEYWORDS: adoption; feminazism; parentalrights; savethemales
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1 posted on 12/04/2012 12:25:00 PM PST by Slings and Arrows
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To: Slings and Arrows

Family courts in this country are just completely out of control.


2 posted on 12/04/2012 12:26:58 PM PST by FreedomPoster (Islam delenda est)
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To: FreedomPoster

Does he have to pay them Child Support?


3 posted on 12/04/2012 12:31:45 PM PST by massgopguy (I owe everything to George Bailey)
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To: Slings and Arrows

Hmm, I know for a fact that in Texas both the biological mother, the biological father, the legally married husband, and the legally married wife all need to legally sign away their rights to the child. The mother can’t do it on her own.


4 posted on 12/04/2012 12:33:16 PM PST by bgill (We've passed the point of no return. Welcome to Al Amerika.)
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To: FreedomPoster

21 months the baby has bonded with the new parents. He needs to move on, it really is sad, but the damage of taking a little one away from the bonded parents is very devastating... The child´s rights at this time are greater than the sire´s right.


5 posted on 12/04/2012 12:34:33 PM PST by rovenstinez
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To: Slings and Arrows

Another version here:

http://www.foxnews.com/us/2012/12/04/drill-instructor-reportedly-ready-for-daughter-return-in-indefensible-adoption/?test=latestnews

The judge had some rather harsh words for the ex-wife, agency, and adoptive parents.


6 posted on 12/04/2012 12:35:57 PM PST by MAexile (Bats left, votes right)
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To: FreedomPoster
There is something seriously wrong with a system which doesn't question the ability of one spouse to sign away a piece of community property without written consent of the other. Had the husband done this with, say, the family car, there would be hell to pay.

This is the purpose of redefining marriage to include queers: so children become nothing more than chattel to satisfy the "needs" of adults.

7 posted on 12/04/2012 12:35:57 PM PST by Vigilanteman (Obama: Fake black man. Fake Messiah. Fake American. How many fakes can you fit in one Zer0?)
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To: Slings and Arrows

In another article, I read that, yesterday, a judge ordered that the child be returned to her father.


8 posted on 12/04/2012 12:36:07 PM PST by writmeister
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To: bgill

Article goes into more detail.


9 posted on 12/04/2012 12:36:07 PM PST by Slings and Arrows (You can't have IngSoc without an Emmanuel Goldstein.)
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To: Slings and Arrows

Achane!? Bland!? Married!?

NOT making much sense here. I thought when people got married the husbands name was now the wifes as well.

Curious.


10 posted on 12/04/2012 12:36:22 PM PST by rockinqsranch (Dems, Libs, Socialists, call 'em what you will, they ALL have fairies livin' in their trees.)
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To: Slings and Arrows

In another article, I read that, yesterday, a judge ordered that the child be returned to her father.


11 posted on 12/04/2012 12:36:29 PM PST by writmeister
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To: Slings and Arrows

In another article, I read that, yesterday, a judge ordered that the child be returned to her father.


12 posted on 12/04/2012 12:36:36 PM PST by writmeister
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To: Slings and Arrows

In another article, I read that, yesterday, a judge ordered that the child be returned to her father.


13 posted on 12/04/2012 12:36:48 PM PST by writmeister
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To: Slings and Arrows

These Frei people do not look very good, if this article is at all accurate.


14 posted on 12/04/2012 12:37:35 PM PST by wideawake
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To: Slings and Arrows

Pardon the multiple postings.


15 posted on 12/04/2012 12:38:57 PM PST by writmeister
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Doesn’t it seem like the U.K. press is breaking a lot of interesting stories the U.S. press is not? It was true during the campaign as well.


16 posted on 12/04/2012 12:39:59 PM PST by Perkalong (GOP 2012 = Whigs 1856)
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To: bgill
Hmm, I know for a fact that in Texas both the biological mother, the biological father, the legally married husband, and the legally married wife all need to legally sign away their rights to the child. The mother can’t do it on her own.

I believe that Texas allows use of a web-based putative father registry (which NO ONE ever checks) with a defined time limit, after which no response is taken as consent. That would only be pertinent if there were no husband involved. There must have been some lying gong on somewhere.
17 posted on 12/04/2012 12:40:17 PM PST by Dr. Sivana (There is no salvation in politics.)
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His newborn baby, whom he had wanted to name Teleah ...

If the poor little girl was given a sensible name by the adoptive parents, can she keep it?

18 posted on 12/04/2012 12:40:28 PM PST by Tax-chick (Dan, is that your eyeball on the floor?)
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To: rovenstinez

So a couple who defrauded the father and contumaciously ignored the court’s order has thereby bestowed new rights upon the child? Hardly.


19 posted on 12/04/2012 12:42:25 PM PST by Mr. Lucky
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To: Perkalong

Why the hell doesn’t our media pick these stories up? Something is rotten here, and it ain’t even partisan.


20 posted on 12/04/2012 12:44:47 PM PST by MetaThought
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