I'll bite. What eternal consequences are there going to be exactly for staying home with my children?
I have no idea how a greater income somehow makes a woman the head of a family.
Like no one ever heard of “management?”
Way too much to go into on a message board, and it’s more of a generational legacy thing than anything.
You can explore it on your own if you choose, or not.
It took me about 6 years of husband/dadhood, study and prayer to arrive where I am. I’m not going to even try to convince someone on a message board as I can’t post 6 years of studies and experience.