I also know that women are generally aware of their husbands personal patterns. They also know that if his patterns change, there’s something happening.
The only caveat I would allow is if Sandusky was always having young men and boys hanging around him, prior to her knowing him, because then his patterns would have the normal ups and downs, for him, and she wouldn’t be aware.
But then the question should arise as to why he hangs around young boys so much and not grown men.
There are instances where you might be right, but please don’t trot out that “women instinctively know” line.
When it comes to men, women can be the most clueless people on the planet.
Of course the same can be said of men, when it comes to their instincts about women.
Both sexes get it part of the time, when it comes to people of the opposite sex. Being married to people is no guarantee of anything.
If this was happening from day one the behavior would have no reason to change, it would have always been like that.
It would be "normal"...