Hi Bigg Red!! Long time no see!
I’m a plus size, also, and because of it, I do look at others. I’ve decided that some women just want to be ‘with it’ no matter what — or maybe they just don’t care. I was at a wedding a couple days ago, and was astounded at some of the short cocktail dresses worn with legs that belonged under pants or at least a midi skirt.
That sounds like a ‘meow’ comment, I know, but it seems as tho some just don’t have a clue. And it is not as tho they are just trying to make a statement, like the Green Day guy (who ever he is). They simple don’t see themselves as others see them, I guess.
I hear you, girlfriend. It’s as if they don’t own a mirror. You want to say, “Please cover that stuff up!”
(BTW, you and I freeped together a few times, most notably the night before the Bush Inaugural Ball of 2001. :)