Golf? lol
Somebody said that the key to a happy husband is to keep his tummy full and his balls empty. My husband and I had a good laugh over that but he basically admitted it’s mostly true. So I hear what you’re saying, and I do realize it must be tough to be a guy, especially in a culture where skin is everywhere. Having a wife who is always ready, willing, and able has to be a good thing. That’s not the case for guys on deployment and I’m sure it’s tough.
I do realize the power of self-preservation. It’s not being able to do the killing in the heat of battle that would be tough; just the living with it afterwards might be tough for some people. Especially when they have to make the decision in a split second but have the rest of their life to second-guess that decision. When you’ve got political players like John Murtha doing crap like they did to the Haditha Marines it only makes it harder, I would think.
For quite a while I struggled over the question of whether I could shoot to kill somebody who was threatening my kids. I’ve come to the place where I could do it and never look back, I think, but if the situation had arisen before I had sorted that out I’d have had a tough time.
The one thing none of these porn threads seems to ever touch on you come closest to. God, in His Infinite Wisdom, gave man a testosterone level quite literally one hundred fold greater than women. Some couples seems to be able to communicate their needs and desires and be happy. Most, it seems, cannot. All the folks who decry the stuf seem to miss the point and the opportunity. They don’t realize, IMHO, that Satan has them “barking up the wrong tree”.