The one thing none of these porn threads seems to ever touch on you come closest to. God, in His Infinite Wisdom, gave man a testosterone level quite literally one hundred fold greater than women. Some couples seems to be able to communicate their needs and desires and be happy. Most, it seems, cannot. All the folks who decry the stuf seem to miss the point and the opportunity. They don’t realize, IMHO, that Satan has them “barking up the wrong tree”.
Drink water from your own cistern,
running water from your own well.
Should your springs overflow in the streets,
your streams of water in the public squares?
Let them be yours alone,
never to be shared with strangers.
May your fountain be blessed,
and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.
A loving doe, a graceful deer -
may her breasts satisfy you always,
may you ever be captivated by her love.
Why be captivated, my son, by an adulteress?
Why embrace the bosom of another man’s wife?
Proverbs 5:15-20