Well, I decided that I would buy some catfood for her and started putting it out by that particular doggie door and I starting sitting by that door. After a couple of days, she finally rubbed up against me and soon she was sitting on my lap in my computer room but wouldn't have anything to do with anyone else. She hissed at everyone else....LOL.
Some of them certainly have uncanny personalities. I just let them live as they are intended to be.
But deep inside, I KNOW they know I am their mommy and do love me. Perhaps not in a “traditional “ sense, but I know they do.
They are safe, warm and well fed here, and seem happy (except when I try to kiss or hug them).
Whatever, they are who they are. Just knowing they know I am their mommy and have that love for me is enough.
I don't know what they've been through before I received them, but I'm sure their behavior has a lot to do with it.