Me too. I retired from the AF in 2004. Once DADT is lifted, I will never recommend the military as an option to any young person I know.
To a combat team, unit cohesion is everything. Open homosexuality will destroy it. Of course, the social engineers running the country will never admit to that. They'll cheer the destruction of our military... it's been a holy grail to them for ages.
I hope that anti-American muslim bastard in the WH and his satanic fellow travelers enjoy their place in hell when their time comes.
If DADT gets repealed, not only will I never recommend the military as an option to any young person I know, I will actively discourage them. Same thing for my spouse.