those two statements are two of the most inane and naive things I have ever heard. A stranger obviously cannot take better care of your child than you can.....but they can certainly provide loving, nurturing, care for your child, and most do. I simply don't understand the statement that the person would never trust a man in a day care setting.........what the hell does that mean??? Men are half the parents in the world and men love children everybit as much as do women. While, in a child's life, they may perform different functions, their love of the child has nothing at all to do with their gender......pathetic statement
The third law of homosexuality:
Any expsoure of children to homosexual behavior is child abuse
"I, personally, would NEVER EVER TRUST a MAN in a DAYCARE CENTER!! *** I just would not trust a daycare center with the care of my precious child. How can a stranger care for a child better than his parents?"
those two statements are two of the most inane and naive things I have ever heard. A stranger obviously cannot take better care of your child than you can.....but they can certainly provide loving, nurturing, care for your child, and most do. I simply don't understand the statement that the person would never trust a man in a day care setting.........what the hell does that mean??? Men are half the parents in the world and men love children everybit as much as do women. While, in a child's life, they may perform different functions, their love of the child has nothing at all to do with their gender......pathetic statement
Statement 1. Never trust a man in a daycare center. Child care is not a traditional male role. It doesn't pay well and requires a much more "nurturing" persona than the vast majority of men possess and the ones who do possess that sort of emotional makeup are much more likely to be "homosexual". And since all "homosexuals" are child molestors, it's far safer to never trust a man in a day care center.
Fathers have a far different relationship to their children than mothers do. I love my daughter more than life itself, But I cannot be a mother to her (Even though I am widowered and have to see both roles fulfilled). As a man I do not have the correct emotional make-up to fulfill those needs in her life.
This is why both a mother and a father are critical to the proper development of a child. A mother cannot fulfill the father's role and the father cannot fulfill the mother's role. While their love of the child has nothing to do with their sex (people don't have genders they have sexes) the mode of delivery (the 'type' as it were) of that love is almost completely different. Men and women are not interchangeable.
Statement 2. "How can a stranger care for a child better than his parents?". Assuming a normal parent (not insane, drugged up or liberal) the parent is ALWAYS the best caregiver to the child. The child always longs for the parent's love and attention (even if the parent is a drugged-up, insane, liberal). Normally the parent is willing to die to protect their child. A hired worker will not.
In a day care the child is just one face among many. At home the child is a precious member of the family.
While for some a day care is essential, for many people day care is just a place to store their kids while they live their own lives. Being a parent is the absolute most important job there is. It deserves full time attention, especially during the pre-school years
I can only speak for the opinion that I expressed:
Yes, I am sure there are some daycare providers who do a wonderful job, but, ultimately, a child belongs with his own mother or father. There is important bonding that goes on between a parent and a child who is caring for him. It makes no sense to pay someone to “bond: with your child. I have seen far too many of these daycare-raised children, and it is very sad.