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Freeper Canteen ~ Sunday Chapel Thread ~ CELEBRATING THE SUCCESS OF OTHERS ~ October 17, 2010
The Canteen Crew ^ | October 16, 2010 | Serving the Best Troops in the WORLD!

Posted on 10/16/2010 5:09:49 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma


 
 

 

 

CELEBRATING THE SUCCESS OF OTHERS


"Anybody can sympathize with the sufferings of a friend,
but it requires a very fine nature to sympathize with a friend's success."
-Oscar Wilde

It is natural and understandable to feel pangs of envy when we see someone else get promoted while we may have not been; or to see someone else get a NAM and we were not recognized for our hard work. It is human.

Life is full of many disappointments large and small, and it is tough to accept that others may enjoy greater fortune when we are equally deserving. How can we deal with such feelings of envy? First, it is essential to recognize that envy is an emotion that can be good or bad. "Good" envy can motivate us to keep on trying, never to give up the fight. "Bad" envy can lead a person to do harmful things to themselves or to others. It can eat away at one's inner well-being and leave a person an emotional, bitter wreck. Envy created the first murderer, Cain, who killed his brother Abel in a fit of jealousy.

Second, we each need to consider the blessings we enjoy, not to dwell on the things we don't have. When I was aboard USS THEODORE ROOSEVELT in an ethics class, we'd take a large overhead chart with a clean sheet of paper and make a dot in the center of the page with magic marker. Then we'd ask the students what they saw. They'd all say, a dot, of course. Then we'd tell them: here is this big paper, and you say all you see is the tiny dot?!!?! We must look at everything we have, not just the one or two things we feel are missing from our lives.

Yes, it is hard to feel happy when others "succeed" where we have "failed"--but we must never give up, nor allow ourselves to become bitter. Consider the example of my friend, a fellow Chaplain, who applied for commission as a Naval officer three times and was rejected each time. On his fourth try he was accepted and is now a distinguished member of the Chaplain Corps. Remember, when you feel at the end of your rope, make a knot and hang on!

 

 


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1 posted on 10/16/2010 5:09:54 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma
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Onward Christian Soldiers



Dear God:
I ask that no Airman, Coast Guardsman,
Marine, Sailor, Soldier, Reservist, or National Guardsman
Feel alone or forgotten.



O Israel, hope in the Lord;
For with the Lord there is lovingkindness,
And with Him is abundant redemption.
And He will redeem Israel
From all his iniquities.

Psalm 130:7 & 8


2 posted on 10/16/2010 5:10:18 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (Here's a thought!! Donate to the website you are on RIGHT NOW!! .... *waves hi to DS*)
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To: Jet Jaguar


OH! Hai!!

3 posted on 10/16/2010 5:10:45 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (Here's a thought!! Donate to the website you are on RIGHT NOW!! .... *waves hi to DS*)
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To: Brad's Gramma
Evenin' G-ma! *hugs*

A Blessed Lords Day to you and yours!

4 posted on 10/16/2010 5:11:06 PM PDT by oldteen
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To: Kathy in Alaska

:)


5 posted on 10/16/2010 5:11:08 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (Here's a thought!! Donate to the website you are on RIGHT NOW!! .... *waves hi to DS*)
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To: Brad's Gramma
Good morning Troops, Veterans and Canteeners.

* * * * * * * * * * * *

Our Flag Flying Proudly One Nation Under God

* * * * * * * * * * * *

Lord, Please Bless Our Troops, They're fighting for our Freedom.

* * * * * * * * * * * *

God Bless Our Republic

I pledge allegiance to the Flag
of the United States of America,
and to the Republic, for which it stands;
one nation UNDER GOD,
indivisible,
with liberty and justice for all.

Prayers going up


6 posted on 10/16/2010 5:11:50 PM PDT by HopeandGlory (Hey, Liberals . . . PC died on 9/11 . . . GET USED TO IT!!!)
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To: oldteen

Hi Cookie Monster!!! Have a Blessed Lord’s Day!!


7 posted on 10/16/2010 5:12:02 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (Here's a thought!! Donate to the website you are on RIGHT NOW!! .... *waves hi to DS*)
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To: Brad's Gramma
Good evening, Gramma! A blessed Lord's Day to you!

Lamh Foistenach Abu!
8 posted on 10/16/2010 5:12:12 PM PDT by ConorMacNessa (HM/2 USN, 3/5 Marines, RVN '69 - St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle!)
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To: Brad's Gramma
Hiya Gramma!

A blessed Lord's Day to you!!

Thanks for this evening's thread!

9 posted on 10/16/2010 5:12:50 PM PDT by PROCON (17 More Days Until Independence Day, Woo-Hoo!!)
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To: HopeandGlory

;)

thanks, again and again....Have a Blessed Lord’s Day...!!!


10 posted on 10/16/2010 5:13:17 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (Here's a thought!! Donate to the website you are on RIGHT NOW!! .... *waves hi to DS*)
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To: Brad's Gramma

Fits with Thou Shalt Not Covet.


11 posted on 10/16/2010 5:14:53 PM PDT by SandRat (Duty, Honor, Country! What else needs said?)
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To: Brad's Gramma; xzins; bethelgrad; lightman; LiteKeeper; MoJo2001; 007; 1 FELLOW FREEPER; 11B3; ...
Please join us for Sunday Chapel, CELEBRATING THE SUCCESS OF OTHERS, and Liberty






Please stop in and say a prayer of protection for the military.
Prayers from all denominations are needed.


           



Sunday Liberty starts after the Guest Military Chaplain's Service!

12 posted on 10/16/2010 5:15:03 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: ConorMacNessa
Hiya Navy Bro!!

A blessed Lord's Day to you and congrats on Navy's exciting win!

13 posted on 10/16/2010 5:15:07 PM PDT by PROCON (17 More Days Until Independence Day, Woo-Hoo!!)
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To: ConorMacNessa

Conor!!! Have a Blessed Lord’s Day!


14 posted on 10/16/2010 5:15:22 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (Here's a thought!! Donate to the website you are on RIGHT NOW!! .... *waves hi to DS*)
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To: Kathy in Alaska; laurenmarlowe; BIGLOOK; alfa6; EsmeraldaA; SandRat; mylife; TMSuchman; PROCON; ...


GOD BLESS AND PROTECT OUR TROOPS!





Amazing Grace

by John Newton


Amazing grace! How sweet the sound
That saved a wretch like me!
I once was lost, but now am found;
Was blind, but now I see.
.
’Twas grace that taught my heart to fear, .
And grace my fears relieved;
How precious did that grace appear
The hour I first believed!
.
Through many dangers, toils and snares,
I have already come;
’Tis grace hath brought me safe thus far,
And grace will lead me home.
.
The Lord has promised good to me,
His Word my hope secures;
He will my Shield and Portion be,
As long as life endures.
.
Yea, when this flesh and heart shall fail,
And mortal life shall cease,
I shall possess, within the veil,
A life of joy and peace.
.
The earth shall soon dissolve like snow,
The sun forbear to shine;
But God, Who called me here below,
Will be forever mine.
.
When we’ve been there ten thousand years,
Bright shining as the sun,
We’ve no less days to sing God’s praise
Than when we’d first begun.



Lamh Foistenach Abu!
15 posted on 10/16/2010 5:15:43 PM PDT by ConorMacNessa (HM/2 USN, 3/5 Marines, RVN '69 - St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle!)
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To: PROCON

Hey you...hope your week has been good....

Have a Blessed Lord’s Day!


16 posted on 10/16/2010 5:16:05 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (Here's a thought!! Donate to the website you are on RIGHT NOW!! .... *waves hi to DS*)
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To: SandRat

Yes, Sir...that it does!!

YOU have a Blessed Lord’s Day!


17 posted on 10/16/2010 5:16:33 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (Here's a thought!! Donate to the website you are on RIGHT NOW!! .... *waves hi to DS*)
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To: PROCON
A Blessed Lord's Day to you, Army Bro! They came from behind in fine style, didn't they?

Lamh Foistenach Abu!
18 posted on 10/16/2010 5:19:09 PM PDT by ConorMacNessa (HM/2 USN, 3/5 Marines, RVN '69 - St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle!)
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To: HopeandGlory

Good evening and thank you Hope for our nightly pledge! *hugs*


19 posted on 10/16/2010 5:19:57 PM PDT by oldteen
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To: Kathy in Alaska; laurenmarlowe; BIGLOOK; alfa6; EsmeraldaA; SandRat; mylife; TMSuchman; PROCON; ...


GOD BLESS AND PROTECT OUR TROOPS!



The Lord’s Prayer – Andrea Bocelli

DEAR GOD, who suffered torment, agony,
and death upon the Cross to free our souls
from the chains of iniquity, protect and defend
our troops. Guide them in the performance of
their duties. Strengthen them to endure hard-
ship,danger and deprivation in Your service. Let
their efforts free the people of Iraq and Afghan-
istan from the chains of terror and slavery,
foster a lasting peace in the region, and bring all
to a greater share in Your Mercy.
Amen.







Lamh Foistenach Abu!
20 posted on 10/16/2010 5:20:51 PM PDT by ConorMacNessa (HM/2 USN, 3/5 Marines, RVN '69 - St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle!)
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