Posted on 10/05/2010 12:14:16 PM PDT by pinochet
This post is inspired by the tragic death of an 18 year old Rutgers University student, who committed suicide after his room mate secretly filmed him having sex with another man. Apparently, the student was so humiliated, that he felt he could not go on living. It is not known if the young man's family was aware of his sexual behavior. A link to the story: http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-20018574-504083.html
I do not support the liberal gay agenda. But heterosexual men need to start talking openly about difficult issues, which they never talk about with other men. There is no denying that heterosexual men are more insecure about their sexual orientation, than heterosexual women. If women notice that a certain woman happens to be beautiful, they have no problem talking about that woman's beauty. When women notice the beauty of other women, they talk about it openly, without having any concerns that someone will question their sexual orientation.
Men are of course open in admiring the beauty of women. But when a man notices that another man is very good-looking, he will not mention it openly, out of fear that other men will question his sexual orientation. It is hard for some men to openly state that a few men are better looking than many women, even if there is no sexual attraction involved.
That male macho culture, may have contributed to the climate that led the young man to take his own life. I think it is possible for heterosexual men to get in touch with their feminine side, without endorsing the liberal gay agenda.
There is no guarantee that the young man from Rutgers University would have remained gay for the rest of his life, if he had lived. In Britain, Oscar Wilde's teenage boyfriend, Alfred Douglas, married a woman later in life, and became a pro-family conservative Catholic in the 1920s. One of Britain's brightest pro-family conservative politicians in the early 1990s, Michael Portillo, was revealed to have had a gay relationship in college. In the 1990s, Portillo was the British Defence Secretary and was happily married to a woman, and he was in line to succeed John Major as Prime Minister. But gay militants in Britain used the revelations of his college sex life, to destroy his career.
I have read historical narratives of 18th century sailors, who were at sea for several months, where they were deprived of female company. The more attractive of those male sailors became male prostitutes, and all of the male crew joined in the fun.
Of course, many gay leftists argue that anyone who criticizes the gay agenda is secretly gay, and this accustation is used to silence heterosexual men who may have had a stray thought in their high school locker rooms.
Relevant to your capabilities ping.
There’s a ‘Betty in the bows’, boys.
Do I need to get a tattoo on my butt that says “One way, no entry”? Maybe “Unloading zone only”.
Ahhh...............NO!
IMO, young men today are too “in touch with their feminine side” as you put it. I’ve never seen such an effiminate, unisex, pantywaist cohort and dare say there hasn’t been such a one since our founding. Is it because of these boys being raised by day care centers, the lack of male role models in the home or something else?
No, but Libertarians what to be free to switch if they so choose.
I suppose. Just that for most of us, it’d probably take more alcohol than is good for your system.
“It is hard for some men to openly state that a few men are better looking than many women...”
No problem. Cary Grant is better looking than Helen Thomas. Even more so when he was still alive.
Not me, sorry,...women are too fine!
Nah-—most of us normal, red blooded males prefer da womens anatomy instead. No ifs, ands or gay butts about it!
I think the person who was most confused about his sexuality was the guy who did the video taping.
Most of the straight guys I know wouldn’t have any interest in seeing their roommate makeout with another guy.
>>>>Do I need to get a tattoo on my butt that says “One way, no entry”? Maybe “Unloading zone only”.
Not An Entrance
Some gays like hypertrophied (over-muscled) men, while I have never met a woman who does not claim to find that look repulsive. As to penis size: large ones seem to be an obsession with gays, while most women only find them a nice benefit, but not the sole object of lust.
And in the cases you cite, men isolated on ships, I doubt that most men would be interested in another man's genitals, they might fantasize about the other man being a woman. Gays seem to be obsessed with male genitalia.
RE: Are All Men Capable Of Becoming Homosexuals?
I am inclined to think the answer to the question is “YES”.
I cite two examples.
I have a trucker friend, a real macho guy who was quite manly and had lots of women as girlfriends in his youth. He went to the darkside and started dealing drugs. He was caught and sentenced to 5 years (quite heavy IMHO, but then in Singapore, they give you the death penalty ). Anyway, after 3 1/2 years he was released.
He told me that he had an “affair” with another inmate. I asked him if he was gay.... he said he never thought he was... it just “happened”. He got influenced.
Same thing happened to another friend of mine who took up boxing in his youth ( was an amateur champ too ).
In both cases, they never thought of themselves as gay... it just came to them as a result of influence and unsatisfied libido from the opposite sex.
Surrender the booty!...............
Sam Kinison pretty much encapsulated my feelings on the matter.
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