And therein IS the problem...you have done so, I have done so, but from what I see in my community, parenting is just too damn hard. THAT'S why this crap becomes so popular, imo.
having read the books and seen both movies i disagree that that’s why it becomes so popular. they are engaging, period. freedom is a conservative value. i believe that we should be able to see and read what we like. so long as you parent your child properly they will be unscathed. so we should censor what should be written/seen because of those who fail to parent? what sort of free society is that? i don’t want anyone dictating what i can read or see based on their values, because in all likelihood it will be the liberals who attempt to decide for me.