One does have to have a tough skin for any internet forum; I moderated for many years on another forum, and it could be a bloodbath at times.
But...do we want weaklings, or do we want warriors? Let’s not go all wobbly, here. ;)
There's no reason to go soft on anybody. The point is maybe not have such a hair trigger on the IBTZ posts and cut down on the crude language/pics.
Having vigorous opposition without being snarky is what makes this site work.