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Feminism Unfulfilled : Why are so many Women Unhappy?
Christian Post ^ | 10/23/2009 | Albert Mohler

Posted on 10/24/2009 9:29:31 AM PDT by SeekAndFind

"The woman's movement wasn't about happiness." That judgment, attributed to feminist Susan Faludi, seems to be the blunt assessment shared by many other women. As numerous recent studies now indicate, a remarkably large percentage of women describe themselves as increasingly unhappy.

This issue came to light last month in a fascinating essay by Maureen Dowd of The New York Times. Dowd, whose columns often reveal the nation's Zeitgeist, cited the fact that a number of major studies indicate that "women are getting gloomier and men are getting happier." She asked: "Did the feminist revolution end up benefiting men more than women?"

A very similar set of questions arises from TIME magazine's current cover story and special report, "The State of the American Woman." As the cover of the magazine explains, "A new poll shows why they are more powerful - but less happy."

Reporter Nancy Gibbs traces the vast changes brought about by the feminist revolution. "It's funny how things change slowly, until the day we realize they've changed completely," she observes. As she documents, these changes are easily visible in contemporary America:

In 1972 only 7% of students playing high school sports were girls; now the number is six times as high. The female dropout rate has fallen in half. College campuses used to be almost 60-40 male; now the ratio has reversed, and close to half of law and medical degrees go to women, up from fewer than 10% in 1970. Half the Ivy League presidents are women, and two of the three network anchors soon will be; three of the four most recent Secretaries of State have been women.

Along the way, Gibbs also traces more fundamental changes. With remarkable understatement she simply notes "the detachment of marriage and motherhood" among other transformations. "Women no longer view matrimony as a necessary station on the road to financial security or parenthood," she explains.

Nevertheless, "Among the most confounding changes of all is the evidence, tracked by numerous surveys, that as women have gained more freedom, more education and more economic power, they have become less happy."

Gibbs cites a growing body of research that documents this trend toward unhappiness. In "The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness," [pdf file] published in the American Economic Journal: Economic Policy, economists Betsey Stevenson and Justin Wolfers explain that women in the 1970s "reported higher subjective well-being than did men." Now, the opposite is the case.

The big question raised by these studies is this: Has feminism produced unhappiness among women? That question is inescapable when seen in light of the historical context. The great transformation of society by feminism took shape only after the 1970s. As a political and social movement, feminism has been stunningly successful. In the span of a single generation, the society has been overwhelmingly transformed. But, over the same period, women report themselves less happy, especially as compared to men.

As Gail Collins notes in her new book, When Everything Changed: The Amazing Journey of American Women from 1960 to the Present, the pace of this transformation has been absolutely stunning. "The cherished convictions about women and what they could do were smashed in the lifetime of many of the women living today," she observes. "It happened so fast that the revolution seemed to be over before either side could really find its way to the barricades."

Nevertheless, Collins, also a columnist for The New York Times, concluded: " The feminist movement of the late 20th century created a new United States in which women ran for president, fought for their country, argued before the Supreme Court, performed heart surgery, directed movies, and flew into space. But it did not resolve the tensions of trying to raise children and hold down a job at the same time."

These tensions have erupted as flash points in our national conversation over recent years. Some feminists have accused women who decide to stay home with their children as "letting down the team." Gail Collins cites Marlyn McGrath Lewis, director of undergraduate admissions at Harvard University as saying, "It really does raise this question for all of us and for the country: when we work so hard to open academics and other opportunities for women, what kind of return do we expect to get for that?"

The essays by Maureen Dowd and Nancy Gibbs both raise the fundamental question of feminism - Has it led to greater unhappiness among women? Dowd and Gibbs remain committed feminists. Nevertheless, as Dowd notes, feminism has served to increase the burdens upon women, even as it promised to open doors.

Sadly, most feminists seem incapable, given their ideological commitments, of asking the hardest questions. "Progress is seldom simple," Gibbs explains, "it comes with costs and casualties, even challenges about whether a change represents an advance or a retreat."

In reality, feminism was never only about opening doors for women. In order to make the case for the vast social transformation that feminism has produced, the feminist movement aspired to nothing short of a total social, moral, and cultural revolution. Along the way, feminism redefined womanhood, marriage, motherhood, and the roles for both men and women.

Nevertheless, it appears that most women are uncomfortable with this total package. Instead of producing a vast expansion of happiness among women, the feminist movement must now answer for the fact that women, by their own evaluation, appear to be less happy than before the revolution.

The reason for this is probably quite simple. Women are in the best position to evaluate, not only what feminism has gained, but what it has lost. Maybe Susan Faludi is right - The women's movement wasn't about happiness. Adapted from R. Albert Mohler Jr.'s weblog at www.albertmohler.com.

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R. Albert Mohler, Jr. is president of The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky. For more articles and resources by Dr. Mohler, and for information on The Albert Mohler Program, a daily national radio program broadcast on the Salem Radio Network, go to www.albertmohler.com


TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; Editorial; Philosophy
KEYWORDS: feminism; happiness; mohler; psychology; women
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To: esquirette
How happy are men?

Pretty dang happy. Kids are grown and gone, and I do whatever I please, without being tied down to expectations from anyone.

I spent most of my adult life married, but I won't make that mistake again.

In place of a wife, I took up smoking and got a couple of cats. It's just as annoying and dangerous, but without the bother.

/johnny

81 posted on 10/24/2009 10:42:52 AM PDT by JRandomFreeper (Gone Galt)
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To: Aria; Kenton
Only a man would invent the theory of penis envy.

How true. Women can do everything men can do, namely pee and have sex. And, they can do two things men can't do: Have babies and breastfeed. If anything, there should be breast and uterus envy.

82 posted on 10/24/2009 10:44:50 AM PDT by sportutegrl (If liberals could do math, they would be conservatives.)
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To: ReneeLynn

Alot can be 2 to 2 million. It is basically an opinion piece masquerading as factual report.


83 posted on 10/24/2009 10:45:02 AM PDT by Marty62 (former Marty60)
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To: SeekAndFind

Women’s lib and Pop-Culture have finally achieved their most sought-after goal. In the minds of many people, women are nothing but sex-objects.

congrats.


84 posted on 10/24/2009 10:46:48 AM PDT by GeronL (http://tyrannysentinel.blogspot.com .... I am a rogue nobody. One of millions.)
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To: SeekAndFind

Who says this is feminism UNfulfilled?


85 posted on 10/24/2009 10:48:04 AM PDT by MortMan (Stubbing one's toes is a valid (if painful) way of locating furniture in the dark.)
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To: Marty62
I for one am glad i am in a UNION. See i work year round and make enough money that my wife doesn't have to work. She could work by why? She stayed home raised the boy and now can do anything she wants all day long. Why in God's Earth a woman would want to work is beyond reasonable thinking. Think about this. If all the women decided to stop working just imagine the amount of job openings that would occur. Wages would certainly go up along with prices too but everyone would benefit. Do it for “The Children� ladies. Stay home, raise the kids, have dinner on the table, do the laundry, clean the home. Hell all of that combined sounds like enough work to keep one busy all day. I didn't even mention about the mail man or milk man..ha ha ha
86 posted on 10/24/2009 10:48:11 AM PDT by Plumberman27
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To: SeekAndFind

One minute watching the Joy Behar show would answer that question....


87 posted on 10/24/2009 10:56:28 AM PDT by vetvetdoug (FUBO, a fashion statement for conservatives.)
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To: ReneeLynn

What freedom? I see very little freedom in today’s life.


88 posted on 10/24/2009 10:58:15 AM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: SeekAndFind

The feminist movement was an attack on American family values...it’s that simple. The DSA started targeting women on campus back in the 50’s and began their attack on American families.

A lot of the women who participated in it were failures that couldn’t manage their lives in their new roles as wives, mothers, and professionals. They weren’t happy then, and they’re not happy now.

But there is a new movement of smart women, along with smart men coming up in this new generation that are keeping their families together and working hard to provide for their family’s needs and keep happiness to the fore in their lives! Many of them grew up in homes watching their mothers struggle to raise them, and absent fathers who seemed helpless in the face of the feminist movement.

My kids are some of them...they’re not perfect, and sometimes it’s not pretty...they may fight like cats and dogs but they are open and honest and the one thing they are determined to do is provide their children with stable homes so as they can grow with confidence in themselves and their parents. They iron out the little issues fast with hisses and barks and don’t hold grudges. That’s one of the keys. And they take plenty of time to play together and with like minded families.


89 posted on 10/24/2009 11:00:13 AM PDT by RowdyFFC (Nancy Pelosi...please deny her any health care....)
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To: SeekAndFind

Well, there’s menstrual, pre-menstrual, and post-menstrual. Three weeks out of every four in this condition makes for an unhappy little camper.


90 posted on 10/24/2009 11:07:54 AM PDT by cydcharisse
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To: SeekAndFind
This issue came to light last month in a fascinating essay by Maureen Dowd of The New York Times. Dowd, whose columns often reveal the nation's Zeitgeist

Stop right there - Maureen Dowd's columns reveal Maureen Dowd's neuroses, petty grievances and lack of writing talent. Nothing more.
91 posted on 10/24/2009 11:08:34 AM PDT by AnotherUnixGeek
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To: Secret Agent Man
"Come on, don’t buy into the ‘all women are victims’ line here."

Did you read my post? Nowhere did I imply women were victims except of their own expectations.

92 posted on 10/24/2009 11:20:07 AM PDT by DannyTN
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To: SeekAndFind
In "The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness,"

It's only a paradox because the author is an idiot. Feminism freed men from the restraints and requirements of responsibility and heaped those responsibilities on women. Duhh.

Now excuse me while I go waste the rest of the day on my own selfish pursuits.

93 posted on 10/24/2009 11:25:00 AM PDT by lafroste
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To: Aria

To post 19 - What’s the trump card women possess (and I am being serious). Also, in my opinion and experience, the most frequently happiest couples are those who are sincere Christians. Doesn’t mean that all’s perfect and no hurdles to jump, but they usually find the solution.


94 posted on 10/24/2009 11:35:48 AM PDT by jla
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To: jla
To post 19 - What’s the trump card women possess (and I am being serious).

The joke is:

Women have 74% of the money and all of the p%%sy. What's fair about that?

In reality the drive to mate in men is quite strong (you may have noticed). In young men, it is easily strong enough to compel them into a covenential relationship with women. If females mate promiscuously, then that most powerful of incentives is removed. That is, I believe what he means.

95 posted on 10/24/2009 11:41:33 AM PDT by lafroste
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To: nickcarraway

You don’t?


96 posted on 10/24/2009 11:49:54 AM PDT by ReneeLynn (Socialism is SO yesterday. Fascism, it*s the new black. Mmm Mmm Mmm.)
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To: Marty62

Yay! We agree. :)


97 posted on 10/24/2009 11:51:34 AM PDT by ReneeLynn (Socialism is SO yesterday. Fascism, it*s the new black. Mmm Mmm Mmm.)
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To: lafroste
75% of the money and all of the felidae

Yep, and if it wasn't for the latter and money being the former, there would have been a bounty posted upon them.

98 posted on 10/24/2009 11:56:44 AM PDT by vetvetdoug (FUBO, a fashion statement for conservatives.)
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To: DannyTN

I reread it, I actually see where you’re coming from. Good point.


99 posted on 10/24/2009 11:58:56 AM PDT by Secret Agent Man (I'd like to tell you, but then I'd have to kill you.)
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To: SeekAndFind
Simple, because they voted for the Boy King Obummer.

Kind of like waking up after getting Drunk and doing a One Nighter with the guy they met at the Club.

100 posted on 10/24/2009 12:04:36 PM PDT by Kickass Conservative (Here's to the good old days, when we shot Commies instead of electing them.)
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