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Recalling Mary Jo Kopechne
Times Leader (Wilkes Barre PA) ^ | 7/22/09 | Bill O’Boyle

Posted on 07/22/2009 6:30:03 AM PDT by Born Conservative

PLYMOUTH – Mary Jo Kopechne was much more than a victim at a bridge.

She was a central figure in the events that led to the end of Sen. Ted Kennedy’s presidential aspirations.

She was one of a few women known as the “Boiler Room Girls” who helped Sen. Bobby Kennedy become a front-runner for the Democratic nomination for president in 1968. She helped write his speeches and was involved in high-level campaign strategy.

She was an intelligent, capable, fun-loving young woman who also liked the ocean, roller coasters and medium-rare burgers.

Kopechne was buried 40 years ago today from a small church in Plymouth, and the circumstances surrounding her death live on in books, magazines and newspapers.

But the person that Kopechne was has never really been talked about, and her first cousin says it’s time people got to know her.

“Mary Jo was delightful,” said Georgetta Potoski, Kopechne’s first cousin. “She had a great sense of humor, yet she was very shy. I’ve never heard anyone say a bad word about her.”

Potoski was two years younger than Kopechne, who would have turned 69 years old this Friday, and when they were younger the cousins spent a lot of time together.

Potoski’s mother and Kopechne’s mother were sisters. Potoski said she spent many summers at the Kopechne home in East Orange, N.J.

“She was serious about her work and her career and trying to make a difference in the world,” Potoski recalled. “She was very interested in politics; Gwen and Joe (Mary Jo’s parents) were often invited to the Kennedy homes. Mary Jo was once asked to be the governess to the Kennedy children, but she turned it down.”

Potoski said Kopechne earned a degree in education from Caldwell College in New Jersey and worked at an all-black school in Alabama during the height of the civil rights movement.

“She was not a party girl,” Potoski said. “She loved roller coasters and amusement parks. She liked to have fun.”

Potoski said Mary Jo had to have butter, not margarine, and her hamburgers had to be medium rare. She said her cousin was a very faithful person, never missing Sunday Mass.

“If you knew a dirty joke, you didn’t tell it to Mary Jo,” she said.

Standing in her living room in Plymouth, Potoski looked at an oil portrait of Kopechne painted by a friend.

“It was done shortly before she died,” Potoski said. “Look at that smile. It’s a shame that she’s dead longer than she was alive.”

On July 18, 1969, after leaving a cocktail party with Sen. Ted Kennedy, Kopechne, 28, drowned when Kennedy’s car plunged off Dyke Bridge into a tidal pond on Chappaquiddick Island, Mass.

“Her death changed their lives forever,” Potoski said of the Kopechnes. Fateful party

Kopechne had attended the party on Chappaquiddick Island, off the coast of Martha’s Vineyard, held in honor of the “Boiler Room Girls.” It was the fourth such reunion of the six campaign workers for Sen. Bobby Kennedy.

According to reports, Kopechne left the party at 11:15 p.m. with Ted Kennedy, who offered to drive her to catch the last ferry back to Edgartown, where she was staying. Kennedy told police he made a wrong turn on the way and came upon a narrow, unlit bridge without guardrails.

The senator drove his 1967 Oldsmobile Delmont 88 off the bridge and it landed on its roof in the water. Kennedy got out and swam to shore, leaving Kopechne in the car, where she later died.

Printed reports of the incident say Kennedy failed to report the incident to the authorities until the next day when the car and Kopechne’s body were found.

Kennedy attended Kopechne’s funeral July 22, 1969, at St. Vincent’s Roman Catholic Church in Plymouth. His wife, Joan, and Bobby Kennedy’s widow, Ethel, also attended. Sen. Bobby Kennedy was assassinated a year earlier in the ballroom of the Ambassador Hotel in Los Angeles after giving a victory speech following his win in the California Democratic presidential primary.

Kopechne was buried in the parish cemetery on the side of Larksville Mountain. Her parents are also buried there.

A week after the funeral, Kennedy pleaded guilty to leaving the scene of an accident after causing injury and received a two-month suspended sentence. He went on national television to say he was not driving under the influence of alcohol and that he did not engage in any immoral conduct with Kopechne.

At the time of the accident, Kennedy was 37, married and serving his second term as U.S. senator from Massachusetts.

Tom Baldino, political science professor at Wilkes University, said Chappaquiddick all but ended Kennedy’s chances of becoming president of the United States.

“Chappaquiddick raised serious doubts about Kennedy’s maturity and judgment,” Baldino said. “Aside from the fact that he was with a younger woman not his wife, he had been drinking and he left her in the car after the crash. Few people would vote to entrust such a person with the responsibilities of the president.”

Attempts Tuesday to extract a comment from Sen. Kennedy were unsuccessful. Calls to his press office in Washington, D.C., were answered, but Kennedy did not issue a statement on the 40th anniversary of his visit to Plymouth for Kopechne’s burial.

Kaelan Richards, Kennedy’s deputy press secretary, said the office received a message from The Times Leader that was received by an office intern.

“We will not offer a comment,” Richards said. Asked if Sen. Kennedy would be offering a comment, she said, “We handle things here in the press office. Thanks for calling.” Familiar with bridge

Vance Packard lives near Thornhurst and his family has had a house on Chappaquiddick Island since the early 1950s. Packard said he performed some repair work on Dyke Bridge in the late ’50s. When his parents bought their house on the island, Packard said, there were 74 homes there. He said there are 400 to 500 houses on the small island today.

Packard, 67, said he has driven over Dyke Bridge “a million times” and he knows it intimately. He said he wasn’t on the island when Kopechne was killed, but he has heard many stories speculating about what happened that July 1969 night.

“People wondered what happened,” he said. “They wondered how Kennedy could have swum across Edgartown Harbor; most people would have stolen a row boat to get across.”

Packard said the house where the cocktail party was held is still there. He said new owners have let shrubs and trees grow in front of the house, making it barely visible from the road.

Packard knows the island and its people well. In his mid-teens, he published a newspaper – The Chappy Chatter – that printed newsy items about the island.

“Some weeks we would print that nobody died this week,” he said.

Packard said the post-Chappaquiddick years have seen a gradual erosion of the memory of the tragedy.

“The truth of the matter is that most people there have put it in the backs of their minds,” he said. “Many of them vaguely remember the event. And for what it’s worth, Kennedy still carries the island by a landslide whenever he runs. They don’t seem to hold the incident against him.” ‘Overwhelming sadness’

Raymond “Chiefie” Jenkins was on the Plymouth Borough police force and he worked the Kopechne funeral. He was at the Kielty Funeral Home and later at St. Vincent’s Church on the day of the burial.

“I remember it was a day a lot like today,” Jenkins said Tuesday in his Plymouth home. “There were a lot of people there, but they all behaved and showed respect for the family.”

Marie Shevock of Plymouth attended the Mass. She said the church was packed for the solemn occasion.

“I remember the overwhelming feeling of sadness,” Shevock said. “Sadness for this beautiful, young woman who was taken from her family at such a young age.”

Potoski said she is spending her summer scanning letters the Kopechnes received from thousands of people and family photos. She wants to preserve them for posterity, she said.

“Most of the letters are supportive of the family,” Potoski said. “There’s even one in there from Cassius Clay, aka Muhammad Ali.”


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Extended News
KEYWORDS: chappaquiddick; maryjokopechne; suffocation; tedkennedy
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1 posted on 07/22/2009 6:30:04 AM PDT by Born Conservative
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To: Born Conservative

I can only hope that there is an afterlife, and that there is a very, very special place waiting for this worthless piece of flesh.

(Yup, I know he could be forgiven, but given that he’s a Kennedy, he probably thinks he can pay off God too. Heck, it worked for the Massachusetts authorities.)


2 posted on 07/22/2009 6:34:38 AM PDT by Da Coyote
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To: Born Conservative

A health care bill named for a guy who wouldn’t help a woman live is the ultimate insult.


3 posted on 07/22/2009 6:35:17 AM PDT by dblshot
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To: Born Conservative

4 posted on 07/22/2009 6:36:23 AM PDT by Bobalu (I AM JIM THOMPSON)
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To: Born Conservative

Epitaph:

Ted Fled and left Mary Jo for Dead.


5 posted on 07/22/2009 6:37:45 AM PDT by Le Chien Rouge
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To: Born Conservative

Kennedy’s behavior led to Mary Jo’s death.

Kennedy’s healthcare will lead to even more deaths.


6 posted on 07/22/2009 6:38:29 AM PDT by Erik Latranyi (Too many conservatives urge retreat when the war of politics doesn't go their way.)
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To: Born Conservative

I wonder if Mary Jo was still a leftist when she died?


7 posted on 07/22/2009 6:38:39 AM PDT by Lion Den Dan
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To: Born Conservative

If that sorry piece of trash does make it upstairs, he’ll come face to face with her.


8 posted on 07/22/2009 6:38:49 AM PDT by animal172 (Disgusted in Tennessee)
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To: Born Conservative

This is a publicity still from what is undoubtedly NOT Ted Kennedy's favorite movie -- Ghost Story (1981) starring Fred Astaire, John Housman and Don Ameche.

9 posted on 07/22/2009 6:39:10 AM PDT by Maceman
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To: Born Conservative
And for what it’s worth, Kennedy still carries the island by a landslide whenever he runs. They don’t seem to hold the incident against him.”

Sick worthless bass-turds all!

10 posted on 07/22/2009 6:43:05 AM PDT by Just A Nobody (Better Dead than RED! NEVER AGAIN...Support our Troops! Beware the ENEMEDIA)
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To: Born Conservative
If she were alive today she would comfort Teddy Kennedy in his dementia.
11 posted on 07/22/2009 6:45:56 AM PDT by BallyBill (Serial Hit-N-Run poster)
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To: Just A Nobody
In 1979, Ted ran against a sitting Democrat president for the DNC presidential nomination. He was in Iowa, meeting with a group of farmers at a grain elevator. "How's the service out here on the Wabash ?" Kennedy asked the crowd, suggesting he'd hold hearings and call up railroad executives to find the answer.
This brought puzzled looks from the Iowegians; the Wabash's last run through Iowa was in the 1920s...
12 posted on 07/22/2009 6:52:46 AM PDT by Eric in the Ozarks
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To: Born Conservative

America and the world would be a better place if Mary Jo was still alive, and TK was still in the back of his submerged Olds.


13 posted on 07/22/2009 6:53:37 AM PDT by Grampa Dave (Does Zer0 have any friends, who are not criminals, foreign/domestic terrorists, or tax cheats?)
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Kopechne, 28, drowned

Assumes facts not in evidence. There's more compelling evidence that Kopechne suffocated instead of drowned.

14 posted on 07/22/2009 6:58:02 AM PDT by A.A. Cunningham (Barry Soetoro is a Kenyan communist)
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To: Born Conservative
It's sad, astounding, depressing and discouraging that the left and the Dims have such a pernicious hold and influence on the media of this country that the Dims can literally get away with rape and murder with no consequences.

What is Hussein Obama getting away with? Is he really an American?

Is there a nuclear 9/11 coming under his watch?

15 posted on 07/22/2009 7:01:09 AM PDT by garyhope
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To: Bobalu

Very fitting....


16 posted on 07/22/2009 7:01:59 AM PDT by stephenjohnbanker (Pray for, and support our troops(heroes) !! And vote out the RINO's!!)
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To: A.A. Cunningham; All

“Assumes facts not in evidence. There’s more compelling evidence that Kopechne suffocated instead of drowned”

I was 15 and nearby when this happened.

An MIT scientist reported that she suffocated. He also proved that it was low tide. Kennedy stated it was near high tide.


17 posted on 07/22/2009 7:07:54 AM PDT by stephenjohnbanker (Pray for, and support our troops(heroes) !! And vote out the RINO's!!)
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To: Lion Den Dan
I wonder if Mary Jo was still a leftist when she died?

A lot of people were "leftists" back then. The Civil Rights movement energized people and the specter of nuclear war frightened more. When she was a teenager she would have seen pictures of "Whites Only" drinking fountains in Life Magazine. Most people believed that war with Russia was inevitable and would be nuclear. We were losing over 200 men a week in Vietnam in a war for with no clear objectives nor hope of victory.

It was barely 20 years since Jackie Robinson and the integration of the Armed Forces. Poverty in those days was palable. The "poor" didn't have cell phones and weren't morbidly obese and didn't wear designer jeans.

A lot of idealist people of her generation got involved in Democratic Party politics before the Democratic Party, the Party of Truman, after all, turned into the rancid anti-American, Luddite, race baiting monstrosity it is today.

18 posted on 07/22/2009 7:14:40 AM PDT by Lonesome in Massachussets (AGWT is very robust with respect to data. All observations confirm it at the 100% confidence level.)
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To: Born Conservative

...and Kennedy is still a senator from Massachusetts. Says a lot about the mentality of those voters.


19 posted on 07/22/2009 7:15:53 AM PDT by Islander7 (If you want to anger conservatives, lie to them. If you want to anger liberals, tell them the truth.)
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To: Born Conservative

Sounds like she was a nice girl who probably swallowed the liberal line hook line and sinker.

She was seduced by the left and by a Kennedy.


20 posted on 07/22/2009 7:20:36 AM PDT by yarddog
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