Posted on 06/17/2009 5:27:44 PM PDT by politicalmerc
STANDISH, Maine -- Justin Denney's family watched as he ascended the Cumberland County Civic Center stage during graduation Friday night to accept his diploma, but the superintendent told him to return to his seat. The Bonny Eagle High School senior's mother said she can't believe her son's taking a bow and blowing a kiss on stage led was grounds for the superintendent to withhold his diploma. Mary Denney wants an apology, and her son wants his diploma, reported WMTW-TV in Portland, Maine. "I'm like, 'Did she not hand him his diploma?' I'm like, 'What's going on?'" Mary Denney said.
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Very good example of pure relativism.
Fifty years ago do you think anyone anywhere would have thought of dressing up like a penis for his graduation? But that’s your “standard” against which you then evaluate kiss-blowing.
It’s people like you who enable the penis-costumers because you have no principle to operate from, just “well, it could be worse,” and “well, it’s not as bad as X.”
So my kid steals a CD and I tell the store security guard, look, that other guy in last night’s newspaper stole a motorcycle from the Harley store. My kid did nothing wrong because someone else did something worse.
Or your wife commits adultery and tells you, well, just be glad I didn’t do it with your brother. Leave me alone you stuffed shirt?
All of his "behaviors" were because he had just had his integrity publically raped in the name of good behavior. The entire incident was an atrocity, the school administrators in this country are tinpot gods who regularly violate student integrity at will. Calling in a cop was further insult, and he was right to throw off his cap and gown (like hell he threw it at the cop, they were looking for a reason to arrest him and that would have done it).
Blowing a kiss to your mom and taking a bow when you get your high school diploma is disturbing the ceremony? Get a life, and stuff your worship of petty rules where the sun don't shine. This was rank, obvious, insulting and highly disrupting tyranny by the administrator - period.
And your support of it is disgusting.
The jerk is a youngster and he blew a kiss. That doesn’t make him mentally ill with Narcissistic Personality Disorder or like Clinton or Obama.
I’m going to bow out of this, I don’t want to argue with you, but wish you would reconsider your rigid position on this. Some battles just aren’t worth the trouble. This is relatively harmless and we need to pick our battles.
Utterly irrelevant pseudo-analogy. Did you earn your diploma?
I believe that part of the article is talking about another kid. Not the one in question.
Excellent use of the same tactic you're accusing me of, in order not to acknowledge the substantiveness of what I said.
You're really good. I'll bet you get two, even three bucks an hour.
Are you the superintendent in question?
There has to be some history here, if not with this student in particular, with graduation ceremonies at this high school.
I will have to stand with the superintendent on this one. Discipline and decorum at high schools have been pretty low at high schools for several decades. It is long past time that kids learn that childish behavior has its place and time. Graduation ceremonies are not the place or the time.
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Agreed.
They are talking about a different kid there - not the ‘no diploma kid’.
Whatever became of public ceremony where everyone plays his part well? Why does everyone have to have his little 5 seconds of special attention?
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You make some good points.
Speak for yourself, but please don't try to lump all conservative/traditional ways of thinking into your own distaste for such behavior. Lighten up.
How do you think we got into the mess we are in except by people insisting on being left alone to do their narcissistic little numbers when and wherever they please.
Blowing a kiss towards your Mom is now considered "narcissistic" ??? WOW!
The kid will get his diploma eventually, Im sure. A little tough love by delaying it to drive home the point is the best thing that could happen to him. Obviously his mother is a narcissist herself and shes raised a jerk.
More WOW!
But go ahead, weep tears of sorrow for the poor little dears hurt feelings. Thats what he really needs, a million Mommies out there crying on his behalf. Thatll help him man up real fast.
I'm speechless at this point. Seems you have more issues than just this little meaningless news article. Keep digging.
I’m trying to eat Chex here!!!!!! My poor keyboard.
KISS could not be reached for comment.
Wow, I wasn’t going to say anymore but I do have to say that this guy can’t tell a guy dressing up as a sexual organ from a kid blowing a kiss to his mom.
I’m trying to think, but no, I’m not sure that I’ve ever been so repelled by any other FReeper
It sounds to me that this was a somewhat difficult situation for the administration and faculty concerning the behaviour of this group of rather immature students.
Given the present direction of government schools, I suspect that blowing a kiss to Mom is a tazing offense.
"Don't taze me, bro..."
“Yeah, rules are so much more important than the fact that apparently this kid EARNED HIS DIPLOMA.
But what is that next to showing off a little bit. Fry him.”
No kidding. These regimented types think he’s in the military or something. Bunch of control freaks around here.
This is one case where circumcision might have aided his escape....
Former teacher I see.
Pompous ass power mongers with zero tolerance mentalities who live to puff up with power. And that describes about 80 percent of our “educational establishment”.
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