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How to Talk to a Liberal If You Really Want to Change His/Her Mind
The American Thinker Magazine ^ | May 26, 2009 | bookworm

Posted on 05/26/2009 10:32:53 AM PDT by lewisglad

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1 posted on 05/26/2009 10:32:54 AM PDT by lewisglad
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2. Show that you are sympathetic to the liberal's goals.

What if I'm not?

2 posted on 05/26/2009 10:35:50 AM PDT by Titus Quinctius Cincinnatus (Spock didn't need a teleprompter)
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To: lewisglad

ping


3 posted on 05/26/2009 10:37:10 AM PDT by unkus
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You lost me with the "using facts" part.

The best way to talk to liberals is with questions. Ask the right questions until they answer themselves into a corner and then watch them try to escape.

Won't change their minds but is entertaining.

4 posted on 05/26/2009 10:37:23 AM PDT by meowmeow (In Loving Memory of Our Dear Viking Kitty (1987-2006))
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To: Titus Quinctius Cincinnatus

My thoughts exactly


5 posted on 05/26/2009 10:38:00 AM PDT by clamper1797 (FUBO ... protege of the unholy union of Karl Marx and affirmative action)
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To: Titus Quinctius Cincinnatus

Sincerity is most important.

Once you can fake that, you’ve got it made.


6 posted on 05/26/2009 10:38:09 AM PDT by DuncanWaring (The Lord uses the good ones; the bad ones use the Lord.)
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To: Titus Quinctius Cincinnatus

When all else fails...revert to Mark Levin approach.


7 posted on 05/26/2009 10:38:21 AM PDT by Paratrooper
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To: bookworm

"Many of us have friends, family and colleagues who still cling to liberalism"

You are the enemy.


8 posted on 05/26/2009 10:38:59 AM PDT by I see my hands (_8(|)
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To: Titus Quinctius Cincinnatus

Me either. I don’t toss in any of my beliefs or principals to want them to like me. Too hell with them.


9 posted on 05/26/2009 10:39:12 AM PDT by RetiredArmy (Right wing military retiree. Proudly on DHLS hit list!!!!!)
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I think you should shake your finger in someone's face while hollering the same thing over and over as loud as you can.

That's how my former roommate, the Vice President of College Democrats, thought he would change people's minds.

You have to speak their langusge.

10 posted on 05/26/2009 10:40:50 AM PDT by real saxophonist (The fact that you play tuba doesn't make you any less lethal. -USMC bandsman in Iraq)
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Good article, lewisglad. This particular sentence from the article echoes my own sentiments when it comes to discussing issues with anyone, not just liberals:

“We want to enlighten our friends, not offend them, and the fact is that one cannot simultaneously insult and persuade people.”


11 posted on 05/26/2009 10:40:56 AM PDT by CaribouCrossing
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To: Titus Quinctius Cincinnatus
What if I'm not?

The gist I got from that point was that the lead-in is a straw dog. Like the example about universal health care. We know it's not wonderful or a cure for all ills. But using a starter like "Universal care might be great" is open to a variety of finishes that can define why it isn't. At least that's how I took this point.

For example, "Universal health care might be great, but it hasn't worked very well in Canada or England"...

12 posted on 05/26/2009 10:41:18 AM PDT by bcsco (I'm a Constitution defender!)
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To: meowmeow

yep, I like your way better.


13 posted on 05/26/2009 10:41:37 AM PDT by TribalPrincess2U (The plan... 0 in power for life. At least that's what they told him.)
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To: lewisglad

SO I take it.. spitting on their shoes and going “Arrrrugh”(like a Pirate).. is not recommended?..


14 posted on 05/26/2009 10:43:20 AM PDT by hosepipe (This propaganda has been edited to include some fully orbed hyperbole....)
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To: Titus Quinctius Cincinnatus

I’m waiting for the government to socialize the court system and make all lawyers part of a state-run (state-paid) system. That should make them take a gasp at the thought of nationalizing anything ever again.


15 posted on 05/26/2009 10:43:23 AM PDT by Snapping Turtle (Slow down and get a grip!)
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Seems like an awful lot of energy expended to maybe change someone’s mind. You’d have to have a lot of such conversations to even hope that they’d change their vote to the R column.

But, it’s an interesting article. :)


16 posted on 05/26/2009 10:43:56 AM PDT by proud American in Canada (my former tagline "We can, and we will prevail" doesn't fit with the usurper's goals.)
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To: real saxophonist

LOL!


17 posted on 05/26/2009 10:45:15 AM PDT by lewisglad
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>Understand what a liberal perceives as insulting — and then avoid it<

Avoid telling the truth?


18 posted on 05/26/2009 10:46:18 AM PDT by Califreak (Stammer Lee, TOTUS and Beltway Bob have turned 1600 into a circus)
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Ann Coulters book How to Talk to a Liberal (if You Must): The World According to Ann Coulter, covers this subject very nicely:

Synopsis

Welcome to the world of Ann Coulter. With her monumental bestsellers Treason, Slander, and High Crimes and Misdemeanors, Coulter has become the most recognized and talked-about conservative intellectual in years—and certainly the most controversial. Now, in How to Talk to a Liberal (If You Must), which is sure to ignite impassioned debate, she offers her most comprehensive analysis of the American political scene to date. With incisive reasoning, refreshing candor, and razor-sharp wit, she reveals just why liberals have got it so wrong.

In this powerful and entertaining book, which draws on her weekly columns, Coulter ranges far and wide. No subject is off-limits, and no comment is left unsaid. After all, she writes, “Nothing too extreme can be said about liberals because it’s all true.” How to Talk to a Liberal (If You Must) offers Coulter’s unvarnished take on:

•The essence of being a liberal: “The absolute conviction that there is one set of rules for you, and another, completely different set of rules for everyone else.”

•John Kerry: “A reporter asked Kerry, ‘Are you for or against gay marriage?’ As usual, his answer was, ‘Yes.’ ”

•Her 9/11 comments: “I am often asked if I still think we should invade their countries, kill their leaders, and convert them to Christianity. The answer is: Now more than ever!”

•The state of the Democratic Party: “Teddy Kennedy crawls out of Boston Harbor with a quart of Scotch in one pocket and a pair of pantyhose in the other, and Democrats hail him as theirparty’s spiritual leader.”

•Her philosophy for arguing with liberals: “Tough love, except I don’t love them. My ‘tough love’ approach is much like the Democrats’ ‘middle-class tax cuts’—everything but the last word.”

•The “Treason Lobby”: “Want to make liberals angry? Defend the United States.”

In this full-on Coulterpalooza, you’ll find the real, uncensored Ann Coulter. A special concluding chapter even includes the pieces that squeamish editors refused to publish—“what you could have read if you lived in a free country,” says Coulter. How to Talk to a Liberal (If You Must) is a stunning reminder of why Ann Coulter’s commentary has achieved must-read status.


19 posted on 05/26/2009 10:46:19 AM PDT by Syncro
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“Ask the right questions until they answer themselves into a corner and then watch them try to escape.”

You know what happened to Socretes when he tried this? (Does that mean he wasn’t right?)


20 posted on 05/26/2009 10:46:23 AM PDT by USFRIENDINVICTORIA
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