[Mr. K]

having a baby makes you grow up fast (for moms)

What she should say is “Look at the dirtbag I am stuck with for the rest of my life attached through our child”

[HungarianGypsy]

There are some people on these threads who will still say that she should marry him just because of the baby. Talk about a lifetime prison sentence. If he is speaking of her this way now, what would he treat her like in private?

[Antoninus]

having a baby makes you grow up fast (for moms)

That is very true. When I was in college, I worked with an unwed mother at a local drugstore. I always thought she was 5-7 years older than me. I was stunned when I found out she was *my age*. I was still a kid. She was an adult.