Posted on 12/09/2008 11:22:35 AM PST by radar101
Gay rights activists in San Diego and elsewhere, hoping to sustain a grass-roots protest movement launched after the Nov. 4 passage of Proposition 8, have planned a nationwide boycott tomorrow. The event, called Day Without a Gay, encourages gays, lesbians and their supporters to take off work, refrain from shopping and spend the day volunteering somewhere.
“We're hoping to provide a visual representation of who we are,” said Sara Beth Brooks, an El Cajon bookkeeper who recently formed a group called the San Diego Equality Campaign. “We're your neighbors, your family, your friends. We're everybody. We hope this kind of economic stand will prove a point.”
Organizers said they don't know how many people will participate, but several local employers said they aren't expecting many absences. More than 143,000 people across the country had RSVP'd through Facebook yesterday afternoon. An additional 84,000 listed themselves as “maybe.”
The boycott follows recent street marches in cities across the country, the online “outing” of contributors to the Yes on 8 campaign, and boycotts of individual businesses run by Yes on 8 donors.
“This used to be a pretty complacent civil rights movement,” said Fred Karger, founder of Californians Against Hate. “Not any more.”
San Diego has been a hotbed, with 20,000 people marching in a protest here Nov. 15, and two local firms, the Manchester hotels and A-1 Self-Storage, being targeted by Karger's group for boycotts.
Frank Schubert, campaign manager for Protect Marriage-Yes on 8, said, “I don't think anybody has any difficulty with legitimate protest or freedom of expression. Our objection is when protests cross the line into persecution. People on our side of the issue have been blacklisted, boycotted, harassed. That's wrong.”
He said Day Without A Gay is “really irrelevant to Proposition 8. Our campaign was never about attacking gays or disparaging their contributions to society. It was simply about marriage and how it should be defined.”
Among gay rights activists, some of the emphasis seems to be shifting from confrontation to conversation. Organizers of a Dec. 20 candlelight vigil at six local shopping centers are asking participants not to bring protest signs or chant.
The San Diego Equality Campaign, formed after the election, is creating a speakers bureau and has begun sending volunteers to address public meetings in communities where Proposition 8 passed handily.
Day Without a Gay was originally planned as just an economic boycott, “to remind people that even though we get up every morning and do our jobs, pay our taxes, defend the country in the military, we are still being treated like second-class citizens,” said David Craig, a Los Angeles film producer and co-organizer.
But then Sean Hetherington and Aaron Hartzler, a couple in Los Angeles, suggested adding community service to the mix. “We just thought a boycott was a little divisive, especially with the economy the way it is,” Hetherington said.
In San Diego, Ophira Bergman said she'll be staying home from her job with a video-technology company, and she's canceling the karate class she teaches at UC San Diego. She'll be volunteering instead at the Epilepsy Foundation of San Diego County's annual Gingerbread City fundraiser.
“It's important to me to shed light on gay people and the inequality we face from not having marriages that are legally recognized,” Bergman said. “I don't think people get it.”
Day Without a Gay is patterned after the Day Without An Immigrant protest in May 2006, which featured large marches in several major American cities, including San Diego. Numerous businesses, especially restaurants, were affected, with some forced to shut down for the day.
No major marches are planned for tomorrow. “We've already had marches,” Craig said. “We wanted to do something different.”
Craig admitted it will be difficult to gauge the day's impact. Some boycott supporters are planning to work because they can't get the time off, aren't comfortable “calling in gay,” or have employers who already back equal rights for gays.
Representatives of several large San Diego-area workplaces said that they don't expect a lot of absences, but that anyone taking the day off would need to use personal time and clear it with a supervisor first.
The 800-member Greater San Diego Business Association, also known as the gay and lesbian chamber of commerce, has taken no official position on the boycott.
Joyce Marieb, chief executive officer, said she supports people doing what they believe is right, but also suggested the gay and lesbian community could “leverage our economic power” by supporting companies that “support equal rights for their employees and all marginalized groups.”
Thank goodness I don’t get my hair styled anymore; just cut.
The barbers at my local shop are regular Joes, serve a lot of military, and would punch your lights out if you insinuated anything.
“Day Without a Gay”
Sounds like a great idea to me; BTW, while y’all are gone, STAY!!
Somehow, I don’t think I am going to notice any difference.
HEY! This is a great idea. How do I get a list of all of the gay owned businesses that we are going to boycott? We will also need a list of all businesses that have sold out and support the gay agenda.
I think this is a great idea to show this group how damaging it can get when you call for intimidation tactics against people exercising their constitutional rights, as they claim they are going. Road goes both.
So who is going to organize this boycott of gay businesses, etc?
Nooooo, oh God please nooooooo! How can I go on with out a gay person.
What a load of trash!
But if you were sick that day and called in sick to work, everyone would think you were an H-Mo!
Who will do our make up?
Who will sing our show tunes?
Who will decorate our dept. store windows?
America as we know it will grind to a halt!
“If they actually carry this out my office would be significantly less fabulous.”
Ohhhh, SNAP!
And if faghags join them, the corporate HR departments across the land will come to a still!
True, dat. I don’t really care what people do in the privacy of their bedrooms, and I certainly DON’T want to hear about it in detail.
(check my tag, btw)
I could go for several years without them. Why stop at a single day?
“We’ll be fully staffed here,..”
Good one!
LOL A day without gay? Oh hell go ahead. Like it will matter, the guy proposing this is a flaming retard.
Should be EVERYDAY.
I used to be of the mindset 'to each his/her own', but the more the fags try to shove their perversions down my and the childrens throats, the more I hate them.
Oh please, please, please stay out of sight for as long as you want, and even longer.
That’s what I was thinking too.
This is gonna hit the fashion industry really hard. It’s gonna be a bunch of skinny women standing around by themselves.
Just my .02;if you’re bisexual,can you take a half a day?Just askin’.
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