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Abuse Shelter Head Turns to Violence and Abuse
Renew America ^ | July 8, 2008 | Carey Roberts

Posted on 07/08/2008 4:51:12 AM PDT by FreeManDC

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To: 50sDad
I'm very glad you were able to overcome your past. Some people can. Emory University researchers, I think, were the first to discover that psychological trauma as a child leads to actual physical differences between adult brains...so it can be very difficult for abuse victims to overcome their past.

However, it can be done. I know some who have done so, myself, and I have such admiration for their strength, perseverence, and courage.

21 posted on 07/08/2008 6:23:37 AM PDT by Gondring (I'll give up my right to die when hell freezes over my dead body!)
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To: MEGoody

There are still some places in America where you can handle it yourself, and the local cops will say, “Just call us when you’re done.”
I count myself very fortunate that my parents made it a priority to find such a place, discounting the distance from Broadway.


22 posted on 07/08/2008 6:31:24 AM PDT by 668 - Neighbor of the Beast (Homeschooled and homeschooling.)
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To: pabianice
When my youngest was about 18 months drove down to my parents in Massachusetts. I noticed that he seemed uncomfortable and asked my (ex) wife about it, but she said “He's fine.” My wife just urged her shoulders - the kids had spent the morning and day before with her and her mom.

When we got to my parents I noticed the kid would grimace when he moved his arm. My BIL, a doctor, took one look at the kid and said “He's got a broken collarbone.”

I bundled the kid up and took him to the local hospital, Newton-Wellesly Hospital in the People Republic of Newton.

They checked the kid out then put us in separate rooms and every few minutes a doctor or nurse would come in and glare at me. I was puzzled, but figured they were doing whatever they had to to help my kid. They asked me time and time again what had happened I said I had no idea how the kid was hurt, and described that he had spent that morning and the day before with his mom.

Finally a doctor comes in and glares at me and asks to speak to my wife. I give her the number where she is and the doctor calls her with a nurse listening in. My wife says: “Yeah, he was with me, and I don't know how he got hurt.”

The doctor and nurse broke out with relieved grins and laughed. “It's OK,” the doctor says, and they let my kid in the room with me.

Obviously, at Newton-Wellesly Hospital “ mandatory abuse training” includes the idea that ONLY MEN can be abusers.

Of course, with that philosophy, they would be blind to women that might abuse their kids. But it's more important to promote the "all men are bad" meme than to actually protect children.

You'd think a smart doctor or nurse might challenge that idea, but I guess to do so would make them, themselves, suspect of possibly “protecting abusers,” and it's easier to go along then try to buck that crowd.

23 posted on 07/08/2008 6:48:44 AM PDT by Fido969 ("The hardest thing in the world to understand is income tax." - Albert Einstein)
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To: Gondring
Again, never beaten, always provided for. Love as they knew how to give it. That's one of the wonderful things about having moved through this...I really love them now and have burned away the anger, once I actually gave myself permission to be angry about it. I've processed the feelings and been able to move past them.

My brother lives in a cuccoon of electronic gadgets that help prevent him from having any serious contact with humans that may abandon him, probably with clinical depression mixed in. I've tried to talk to him about this, but with no real luck. It's sad...I live a beautiful techicolor life, and he's stuck in shades of gray.

25 posted on 07/08/2008 7:25:16 AM PDT by 50sDad (OBAMA: In your heart you know he's Wright.)
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To: dennisw
http://www.naplesnews.com/news/2007/oct/26/former_collier_abuse_shelter_ceo_arrested_friday_v/

Kathy Herrmann Catino, the former CEO of the Shelter for Abused Women and Children of Collier County and one-time nominee for the Florida Women’s Hall of Fame, was arrested this week on a voter intimidation charge regarding e-mails she sent to her then-employees on Election Day in 2006.

Kathy Herrmann Catino

Kathy Herrmann Catino

 

26 posted on 07/08/2008 10:01:26 AM PDT by dennisw
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To: dennisw

Good! I hope they hang the bitch.


27 posted on 07/08/2008 10:10:16 AM PDT by sport
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To: sport

She started off good then became a power freak. Like Obama


28 posted on 07/08/2008 11:58:37 AM PDT by dennisw
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To: FreeManDC

Sounds like one nasty dyke.


29 posted on 07/08/2008 12:08:59 PM PDT by Ditto (Global Warming: The 21st Century's Snake Oil)
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To: pabianice
Once in the car, my wife said, "I don't believe these people! They took me into a room and for over 20 minutes, a nurse, an administrator, and a policeman tried to make me file battery charges against you so they could arrest you. I told them I had fallen, but they kept saying, 'It's ok, Ms. Pabianice. He can't hurt you any more. Don't be in denial. Let us arrest him now.'"

I'd laugh - okay I am laughing - but the lesson is clear: Dont piss off your wife or her next fall will land you in jail.

30 posted on 07/21/2008 12:01:27 PM PDT by Smedley (It's a sad day for American capitalism when a man can't fly a midget on a kite over Central Park)
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