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Saudi wants divorce after husband lifts her veil (Never showed her face in 30 years of marriage)
alarabiya.net ^ | 08-Oct-2007 | Al Arabiya.net

Posted on 05/19/2008 8:21:08 PM PDT by Cronos

DUBAI (AlArabiya.net)

A 50-year-old Saudi woman asked for divorce after her husband lifted her face veil while she was sleeping, local press reported.

For 30 years, the wife said she never showed her face to her husband in conformity with the tradition of her native village near the south western Saudi city of Khamis Mushayt.

"After all these years, he tries to commit such a big mistake," the wife told Saudi newspaper Al-Riyadh, after she left the house in total disbelief.

She said the husband apologized and promised never to do it again.

This is not the first case of husbands who have not seen their wives' faces in decades.

In the past Al Arabiya has reported the case of Ali al-Qahtani, whose wife had been wearing the face veil for the entire ten years of their marrage. When he tried to take it off, she threatened to leave and only decided to stay after he swore never to try again.

Hassan Al-Atibi threatened to marry another woman if his wife didn't show him her face. The woman nominated one of her friends who doesn't observe this tradition as a possible new wife for him, saying this would be better than her showing her face.

And neither the husband or children of Om Rabea al-Gahdaray, 70, have ever seen her face. Al-Gahdaray says it is a family tradition, also followed by mother and sisters, which her husband accepted and never tried to change.

When asked how she could have kids without her husband ever seeing her face, she replied: "Marriage is about love, not faces."

The practice of always remaining veiled, even in front of your husband, is not an Islamic practice but a very old tradition practiced by a minority of people in Gulf countries.



TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: arab; islam; muslim; saudiarabia; stoneagesavages
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To: umgud

LOL funny joke.


41 posted on 05/19/2008 11:39:27 PM PDT by Ciexyz
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To: Cronos

`how desperately desperately sad....


42 posted on 05/20/2008 3:58:01 AM PDT by Irishguy (How do ya LIKE THOSE APPLES!!!!)
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To: Global2010
JMO but a husband who does not enjoy the practice of trying to procreate is not hiding behind religeon I would question his sexual preferance.

Or at least see if he had just signed up on FRee Republic...

Full Disclosure: ...or, as in Tristram Shandy, maybe he just associates sex with winding the Grandfather Clock.

Cheers!

43 posted on 05/20/2008 4:33:06 AM PDT by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: Irishguy
not, really, they have the matrimonials site to go to


44 posted on 05/21/2008 5:38:22 AM PDT by Cronos ("Islam isn't in America to be equal to any other faith, but to become dominant" - Omar Ahmed, CAIR)
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To: Irishguy
not, really, they have the matrimonials site to go to


45 posted on 05/21/2008 5:38:59 AM PDT by Cronos ("Islam isn't in America to be equal to any other faith, but to become dominant" - Omar Ahmed, CAIR)
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To: Mr. Mojo
The article is speaking of certain populations in Gulf states, which of course doesn't include Lebanon.

True, but they are all Arabs. (Maybe some in the Gulf states might have a few other things thrown into the mix as well. But usually "Hybrids" are even better looking...Usually.

46 posted on 05/21/2008 6:41:22 PM PDT by El Gato ("The Second Amendment is the RESET button of the United States Constitution." -- Doug McKay)
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To: El Gato
But usually "Hybrids" are even better looking...Usually.

Certainly not in cases where, as was mentioned above, there's no selective pressure for female beauty due to the veil tradition.

47 posted on 05/21/2008 6:44:00 PM PDT by Mr. Mojo
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