[najida]

I know from personal experience, it’s all in how the critque is offered. If it’s done in a constructive way, with lots of praise for all the good things put in too, then it’ll be heard.

If it stands on its own, it comes off as an attack. Just my 2 cents.

[Republic of Texas]

That's true, but our culture never worries about men's sensitivities when it comes to criticism. It makes women too sensitive. If a guy is fat, no one, him, his friends, spouse or family hesitates to point that out. That simply cannot be done with a woman without being labeled a sexist pig. Even if it is true.

I never learned anything by ignoring critisicm. Usually the sooner a person recognizes a problem with their behavior, the easier it is to change. God tends to makes the hurdles higher if you keep ignoring them.