I disagree——
What women don’t want is a man who doesn’t love her...too many men see women as a way not to be alone...ie, something to fill a void, not as a person.
That goes both ways! Anyone who talks about “settling” is basically saying “you’re better than nothing”.
But we have a really screwed up notion of love in our culture. We think it’s nothing but a feeling. That’s the hormones talking. Love takes work. It’s a decision. If you remember that - if you decide to fall in love - well, then, that makes the job a lot easier.
When I met Talon, I didn’t fall for him and then realize he was so compatible with me. I realized that he was everything I was looking for and then decided to fall for him.