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Responsible fathers needed, mayor said, Tomzak calls on churches to promote responsible fatherhood
fredericksburg.com ^ | 1/14/2008 | EMILY BATTLE

Posted on 01/16/2008 10:00:59 PM PST by Coleus

Responsible fathers needed, mayor says


 

Nat Roberts, 12, waits for the start of a parade kicking off the Virginia Statute of Religious Freedom Celebration.


Members of the Knights of Columbus join in prayer during the Virginia Statute for Religious Freedom Anniversary Celebration at the Monument for Religious Freedom along Washington Avenue yesterday.


Knights of Columbus members, framed by American flags, arrive at the Monument of Religious Freedom.

  
Tomzak calls on churches to promote responsible fatherhood at religious freedom event

At the ceremony yesterday to mark the 231st anniversary of Thomas Jefferson's religious freedom statute, Fredericksburg Mayor Tom Tomzak asked the faith community to help with an issue he's been speaking publicly about for the past year.

"We have to turn this faucet off that is spewing children into high-risk environments," Tomzak said. "I challenge the faith-based community today to be sensitive to the needs of suffering women and children outside your flocks."

At the ceremony on Washington Avenue, Tom- zak repeated a message he's delivered in City Hall, in meetings with local social services and criminal-justice leaders and to city officials from around the state.

He wants to find a way to prevent teenagers from having babies, and to prevent babies from growing up in homes without a responsible adult to guide their development. It's a government issue, Tomzak says, because young children who aren't prepared for public schools and older children who break the law all cost taxpayers money.

He said consultants project that the Rappahannock Regional Jail will have to be expanded by 2019 to hold 2,100 inmates, more than double current capacity.

"These inmates are in our schools right now, they're in our nurseries," he said. "It's all preventable."

The question is, what do you do to keep kids on the right track?

Tomzak thinks a lot of the blame lies with the young men who are fathering the children of teenage or otherwise unprepared mothers.

"We are going to have to get the message out that all men are going to have to be responsible for their actions. If they do not want the responsibility of fatherhood, do not father children. Period," he said. "We can't write an ordinance for that in the city."

At a ceremony meant to honor the words that keep believers in America free to worship as they please, Tomzak called on Councilman Hashmel Turner to give two prayers. Turner, a Baptist minister, has not given the opening prayer at City Council meetings for years.

The American Civil Liberties Union threatened him with a lawsuit if he continued to invoke Jesus Christ in his prayers, and Turner later sued the city, claiming that its policy of allowing only nonsectarian prayers before meetings violates his rights.

Turner lost his case in federal district court. The Fourth Circuit Court of Appeals has not yet decided whether to hear his appeal.

Yesterday, Turner prayed for better male role models, asking the faith community "to embrace a community and start with the males, and teach them in a way that they will be productive citizens."

 



TOPICS: Culture/Society; US: Virginia
KEYWORDS: aclu; fatherhood; knightsofcolumbus; religiousfreedom; thomasjefferson

1 posted on 01/16/2008 10:01:04 PM PST by Coleus
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2 posted on 01/16/2008 10:01:58 PM PST by Coleus (Abortion and Euthanasia, Don't Democrats just kill ya?)
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To: Coleus

bttt ... let’s hear more of this. one day it may sink in.


3 posted on 01/16/2008 10:11:25 PM PST by EDINVA
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To: Coleus

Wow. A politician showing some leadership. It happens every now and then and should be praised when it occurs.

That said, there are already a legal avenues to attack this problem; aggressive enforcement of statutory rape laws as well as pursuing paternity compensation whenever the child in question pursues public assistance.

The age of consent in Virginia is 18, and we need prosecutions. Even if the local Commonwealth attorney is unwilling or unable to prosecute, the locality who is paying the bill is welcome to pursue a civil action. Perp walks work.


4 posted on 01/17/2008 7:14:10 AM PST by RKBA Democrat (Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner!)
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To: RKBA Democrat; Coleus
this is my neck of the woods...

Dr Tomzak received a lot of flack for his statements.

Many don't want to hear the truth.

5 posted on 01/17/2008 7:52:53 AM PST by MudPuppy (St Michael Protect Us!)
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To: Coleus

“We are going to have to get the message out that all men are going to have to be responsible for their actions. If they do not want the responsibility of fatherhood, do not father children. Period,” he said.’

It’s time the good rev take a look at reality.

Men have no post conception choice in this country.

It is the woman who chooses when to have sex, what form of the 11 forms of birth control available to women she is going to use, what sex acts will be enjoyed, and if she gets pregnant she gets to choose to carry, adopt, or abort the child....with no say from the father.

In fact, if a wife wants, she can abort her husband’s baby w/o his say, or she can keep a child that was created by cuckholding the husband and most state laws will go after the husband.

So with that said, and in light of the fact that we have been beating up on men for 40 years, giving women more of the power, and the problem has gotten worse not better...

It’s time to hold WOMEN, not men, accountable for these problems.


6 posted on 01/17/2008 8:03:41 AM PST by Keith Brown (Among the other evils being unarmed brings you, it causes you to be despised Machiavelli.)
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“Many don’t want to hear the truth.”

That’s probably a reflection of F-burg being an outlying bedroom community for the beltway. Not the most conservative area of the Commonwealth, but better than say the People’s Republic of Falls Church.

I like what I read about this guy. Thanks for the link.


7 posted on 01/17/2008 5:28:26 PM PST by RKBA Democrat (Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner!)
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