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Dating Swedish men: bring your own beers
www.thelocal.se ^ | 10/25/2007 | Isabel March

Posted on 10/26/2007 1:46:39 PM PDT by WesternCulture

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1 posted on 10/26/2007 1:46:41 PM PDT by WesternCulture
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To: WesternCulture
Although I’m a man, I found this article interesting. My excuse is that I’m a Swedish male myself and furthermore that I find cultural differences interesting.

From many perspectives, life in Scandinavia and America is very similar, but perhaps not as similar as some people might think.

One amusing thing about the article is that it illustrates how behavioral patterns you assume to be a ‘universal’ standard actually turns out to be a mere national peculiarity you’ve become accustomed to (in this case regarding both Swedes and Americans, the behavior of the Swedish men described by the author makes sense to me, being Swedish, but not to her and vice versa).

Personally, I have some experience of cross-cultural love affairs.

I once had a relationship with an Italian women. I met her through an Italian friend of mine who kept telling me it is impossible for most men, whether they’re Italian or Swedish, to have a well functioning relation with an Italian women. By today, I’ve learned to listen to advice from Italian males in this area and my Italian acquaintance is married to a non-Italian woman.

But I still love Italy.

2 posted on 10/26/2007 1:47:37 PM PDT by WesternCulture
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To: WesternCulture

OK. So then how do you meet prospective women of interest in Sweden? And did you go on a “date” with the hot-blooded Italian?


3 posted on 10/26/2007 1:54:59 PM PDT by Incorrigible (If I lead, follow me; If I pause, push me; If I retreat, kill me.)
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To: WesternCulture
especially those relocating to small villages in Lappland

Isn't Lappland in Finland?
4 posted on 10/26/2007 1:56:25 PM PDT by G8 Diplomat (Star Wars teaches us a foreboding lesson--evil emperors start out as Senators)
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To: WesternCulture

Alien cultures are so interesting!


5 posted on 10/26/2007 1:56:54 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("For is he not of noble birth? The first child born above the Earth!")
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To: WesternCulture
The night I met him, he was a brilliant conversationalist. The deal breaker was that the next morning he couldn’t remember what had been said the previous evening.

Meaning she slept with the guy on the first night she met him? (Not even a date!)

This woman isn't ready for a real relationship, and so, she gets what she deserves.

6 posted on 10/26/2007 1:59:21 PM PDT by MEGoody (Ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.)
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To: G8 Diplomat

“Lappland” (only you have to call Lapps “Sami” now) is partly in Sweden and partly in Finland. It’s like Kurdistan.


7 posted on 10/26/2007 2:02:43 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("For is he not of noble birth? The first child born above the Earth!")
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Alien cultures are so interesting!

Don't think I would like dating in Sweden. Of course, it is a slight improvement over him offering your dad four cows for your hand.

8 posted on 10/26/2007 2:04:40 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (A good marriage is like a casserole, only those responsible for it really know what goes into it.)
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To: rzeznikj at stout; GOP_Raider; Rodney King; Tainan; Chasaway; SquirrelKing; dynachrome; ...

Beer Ping!

A low to medium ping list aimed at all of us who, well, love our beer…

FReepmail rzeznikj at stout to be added or struck from the list…

9 posted on 10/26/2007 2:04:59 PM PDT by GOP_Raider (Television is all Tommy Westphall's fault, damn it!)
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To: WesternCulture
If this were the legacy media, I would call this thread a waste of ink.

I guess the modern equivalent is a waste of bandwidth.

10 posted on 10/26/2007 2:05:31 PM PDT by Beckwith (dhimmicrats and the liberal media have .chosen sides -- Islamofascism)
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To: WesternCulture

How on earth do people just move to another country without knowing anything about the culture? Seem completely stupid to me.


11 posted on 10/26/2007 2:05:55 PM PDT by Clock King (Bring the noise!)
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To: WesternCulture
Cool Swedish guys:
12 posted on 10/26/2007 2:06:13 PM PDT by Cecily
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To: Harmless Teddy Bear

I’m always grateful that I don’t have to date anyone, anywhere, at this stage of cultural degeneration.

Tonight, Der Prinz auf Nerdz is taking me to the Catholic Social Services wine-and-nibbles fundraiser. I guess I should start working on my face.


13 posted on 10/26/2007 2:06:39 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("For is he not of noble birth? The first child born above the Earth!")
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My guess is the author is not very attractive and the only guy she could bed had some powerful beer-goggles on.


14 posted on 10/26/2007 2:06:52 PM PDT by Kenny500c
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To: WesternCulture
met her through an Italian friend of mine who kept telling me it is impossible for most men, whether they’re Italian or Swedish, to have a well functioning relation with an Italian women. By today, I’ve learned to listen to advice from Italian males in this area and my Italian acquaintance is married to a non-Italian woman.

Elaborate please.

C_of_D the Italian

15 posted on 10/26/2007 2:07:22 PM PDT by Canticle_of_Deborah (Romney Republican)
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“OK. So then how do you meet prospective women of interest in Sweden?”

- I once came across a poll concluding that many Swedish couples had initially met at parties and through work. Bars and clubs of different sorts were not as common as one might think. But that poll is old by now. Today, a lot of Swedes meet through dating sites. My brother found his wife this way in fact!

“And did you go on a “date” with the hot-blooded Italian?”

- No. I was introduced to her by this Italian friend of mine while I visited Italy and later on they both came to Sweden for holiday and we had a great time together. Then she and I started to correspond and one thing led to another..

16 posted on 10/26/2007 2:09:12 PM PDT by WesternCulture
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Cool Swedish guys:

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17 posted on 10/26/2007 2:10:12 PM PDT by martin_fierro (KOol Swedish Guy)
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To: G8 Diplomat

Lapland, Finland, Sweden; 220-221 whatever it takes.


18 posted on 10/26/2007 2:11:18 PM PDT by Rb ver. 2.0 (The WOT will end when pork products are weaponized)
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To: Tax-chick
It is a grab bag out there but sometimes you can pull out the nicest things. :) But I am very glad I am not doing it any more.

I am taking my sweetie out tonight. He has had a rough week and can use a little pampering.

19 posted on 10/26/2007 2:12:33 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (A good marriage is like a casserole, only those responsible for it really know what goes into it.)
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To: Tax-chick

“Tonight, Der Prinz auf Nerdz is taking me to the Catholic Social Services wine-and-nibbles fundraiser”

I get the wine part, but don’t you think nibbling on each other should be private? Just saying.....


20 posted on 10/26/2007 2:13:17 PM PDT by Rb ver. 2.0 (The WOT will end when pork products are weaponized)
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