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Brides' fathers banned from giving away daughters
The Local ^ | Sept. 21 | James Savage

Posted on 09/21/2007 9:56:24 AM PDT by Bushwacker777

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To: r9etb

Having been the father of the bride, I can confirm how important it was, not only to me but to my little girl and the new man in her life to benefit from the visible act of approval instinct in my giving her away. Had the officiant prohibitted that part of the service, we would have gone elsewhere (of course, had the officiant been a Lutheran priestess, my head would have exploded and I wouldn’t have been able to give my daughter away either).


41 posted on 09/21/2007 12:06:19 PM PDT by Mr. Lucky
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To: Mr. Lucky
(of course, had the officiant been a Lutheran priestess, my head would have exploded and I wouldn’t have been able to give my daughter away either).

I hope you'll excuse my mental picture of Mr. Lucky's daughter dragging his headless corpse down the aisle by his left foot.... ;-)

42 posted on 09/21/2007 12:12:00 PM PDT by r9etb
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To: GovernmentShrinker

Why not? Children are chattel.


43 posted on 09/21/2007 12:19:22 PM PDT by steve8714
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To: wideawake

This is probably an official policy of the ministry which oversees the church.


44 posted on 09/21/2007 12:21:33 PM PDT by steve8714
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To: Zechariah_8_13; stm

Yes, but from what I understand, it is very common in Sweden to live together, have children, yet not be officially married. In other words, monogamy has withstood the deChristianization of Sweden.


45 posted on 09/21/2007 12:23:38 PM PDT by Clemenza (Rudy Giuliani, like Pesto and Seattle, belongs in the scrap heap of '90s Culture)
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To: Bushwacker777

ARRRRRGH!!! If that country weren’t full of hot, sexy blondes, I would urge the muslim residents to take over! A country that PC is ripe for a takeover.


46 posted on 09/21/2007 12:44:21 PM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (Oh, Geesh, not THIS crap AGAIN?!?)
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To: wideawake

another beautiful gesture is at the altar, for the father to quietly take his daughter’s hand and place it the grooms hand.

As if to say, “take this daughter of mine to love and cherish as I have all these years.”


47 posted on 09/21/2007 2:30:58 PM PDT by elpadre
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To: GovernmentShrinker

Maybe the bride should tell the female minister that her father is gay.


48 posted on 09/21/2007 2:35:47 PM PDT by mimaw
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To: stm

15% is enough to keep things going. Actually, I’m surprised it is that high.


49 posted on 09/21/2007 7:05:53 PM PDT by MSF BU
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To: Kozak

Excellent point!


50 posted on 09/21/2007 7:06:59 PM PDT by MSF BU
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To: Mr. Lucky
Having been the father of the bride, I can confirm how important it was, not only to me but to my little girl and the new man in her life to benefit from the visible act of approval instinct in my giving her away.

It was important to my father as well. I was, after all, starting a new family, he was being replaced as the most important man in my life. Even though I was 36 and had been living on my own for years this was a necessary step.

51 posted on 09/21/2007 7:13:45 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (A good marriage is like a casserole, only those responsible for it really know what goes into it.)
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To: mngran

Actually, I’m glad the priest stood up for what her church believes in.


If her church was so loyal to it’s customs and traditions as she claims it is she would never had been ordained.

From the scant information presented I believe she is another man hater. I’m guessing she sees the father giving the bride as “misogyny.”


52 posted on 09/21/2007 7:15:17 PM PDT by Grizzled Bear ("Does not play well with others.")
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To: Disambiguator

Actually, The Borg remind me a lot of the conformist, yet arrogant, nature of Swedes.


53 posted on 09/21/2007 10:54:45 PM PDT by Bushwacker777
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To: trimom

Give a her a hug for me

kids like her are our only hope to stem the destruction of our culture


54 posted on 09/21/2007 11:06:01 PM PDT by wardaddy (if God is your co-pilot, you need to switch seats)
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To: wideawake

nice post...yea I know..it’s humbling

;>)


55 posted on 09/21/2007 11:06:48 PM PDT by wardaddy (if God is your co-pilot, you need to switch seats)
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To: bigred41

Giving away the bride by daddy is very big down south and has been as long as I’ve been alive...50

i read yer page...i hope you are well dear


56 posted on 09/21/2007 11:08:42 PM PDT by wardaddy (if God is your co-pilot, you need to switch seats)
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To: mngran
I'm glad the priest stood up for what her church believes in

But she didn't do that. She claimed it was foreign and sexist not against her religion.

the word sexist is a relatively new victim word designed to marginalize men and is unlikely to be found in church scripture this side of Unitarian (she was Lutheran)

57 posted on 09/21/2007 11:11:56 PM PDT by wardaddy (if God is your co-pilot, you need to switch seats)
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To: LoneRangerMassachusetts

boy no kidding....hard to believe these same folks had such a potent ancestry once


58 posted on 09/21/2007 11:13:50 PM PDT by wardaddy (if God is your co-pilot, you need to switch seats)
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To: Red Badger
It just ain't a Swedish wedding without airborne lutefisk!
59 posted on 09/22/2007 3:00:32 PM PDT by uglybiker (relaxing in a luxuriant cloud of quality, aromatic, pre-owned tobacco essence)
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To: uglybiker

http://www.ecst.csuchico.edu/~atman/ic/lutefisk.html


60 posted on 09/22/2007 6:55:47 PM PDT by Red Badger (ALL that CARBON in ALL that oil & coal was once in the atmospere. We're just putting it back!)
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