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I was told by a guy that at age 35, I was too old to marry and he wouldn’t ever consider marrying someone my age because he wanted children and, he was a few years older than I. Thank goodness he was only a friend and not someone I was dating at the time. LOL

This moron obviously lacks all charming behaviour and he will have problems in getting any female attention at all. Of course a male can think that way since a woman has its highest fertillity with 16, but it should be intelligible that such is BS.

Women in their 30ties are naturally a much more capable partners than 16 year old kids. Therefore it does not make sense to a strong man in his 40ties to deal with adolescents. He will look for something suitable. :)

Guys like your friend lack obviously the strengh to deal with a real partner.

I know a guy in his 40s who, even at his age, judges women and associates with them based solely on their looks. He prides himself on only dating (when he can actually get a date- which is not very often) "petite, good-looking women" and dismissing women who don't meet his "standards" for dating material.

A few years ago, he spotted a woman at a pool wearing a bikini who met his criteria for feminine beauty. He asked her out, she accepted, and they began dating. The fact that she had four kids by four different men, and the possibility that her character may be lacking some important factors, never entered his small, hormonally-charged brain.

They ended up getting married after about five months of dating. He was blissfully happy, and was convinced that his petite little doll was "perfect for him". He legally adopted all four of her kids, and they embarked on their wedded life. The minute the wedding was over, they begin to fight constantly, and she turned out to be a total moron with whom it was impossible to have a conversation, but, after all, she was good-looking so who needs conversation? They were married for about two years.

About seven months ago, she announced to him that she had a boyfriend and ordered him to move out of their house. To make a much longer story short, because he adopted her kids, he now is forced to pay child support for all four, plus the three he had from a previous marriage. He is financially ruined, and is well into a mental and emotional crack-up over this entire affair.

I can't say he has learned his lesson. He is still very superficial and shallow about women; he is not currently daing but when he talks about getting into the game again, all I hear is the same old one-note-samba about how he will not go out with this woman because she is "too fat" or that woman because she "has short hair".

Bottom line: he is a loser with women. And I have a feeling he will be alone for the rest of his life.