Here it is, so get ready for it:
First, women want everything, and they want it right now. Their confusion comes from not being able to prioritize what they want into a simple list from 1 to 100 things. Items on their want list are in constant motion, preventing them from stopping long enough to have a reasoned thought.
Men make the mistake of trying to tell women what they should want, or cant have, resulting in hatred or resentment.
Any man wishing to enter a long term relationship with a woman must be prepared to just give them what they want and shutup about it. Expect nothing in return, because she is using your stuff to build a nest, and a man's presence in it is not necessarily a given.
Its all about the nest, and the coming chicks. Your job as a man is to supply building materials. A man's reward is that the chicks (hopefully) will grow up and look like him.
That's it. That's all there is. She is literally a pickup truck, so he better be Home Depot, or it aint gonna work.
"But Pukin, what about 'love'?"
Get real, people. Love never did anything but mess up your credit.
I am tired of getting flamed on these threads, so if you would be so kind please FReepmail when you have a moment and allow Me to illustrate how you are so right... and yet still wrong. Let Me give you a clue: women use subtle ways to test for the 'wussiness' factor, and at times it is almost unconscious. But when you can play the game on their level, it is SO satisfactory to finally understand what has been going on literally underneath your nose, mate. And sometimes, unconsciously on their parts as well, lol!!!
You’re 100% right...about unconscious women and men. That’s exactly the way it goes when people fall into roles predefined for them by society or family, and don’t attempt to reach a deeper level. Unfortunately, that describes about 98% of people these days. But one can’t let such miserable relationships serve as a model for one’s own.
While that is very cynical, it aptly describes my second marriage. The second Mr. Graymatter, RIP, was a most expensive husband; briefly.
Cynicism is very valuable because nothing else works so well to alert the least cynical among us of their dangerous state of naivete.
Preach it brother PD!
LOL That is the most succinct and accurate explanation of women I have ever heard. It must have cost you dearly to learn that.